Im a cheater

So I have been with my husband since I was 16 so thats 8yrs now.We have a 6yr old and I'm pregnant now, neither pregnancy was planned but atleast I'm sure this time who my babys father is.Both children are by my husband...Heres the twist I cheat ALOT.Last year I cheated on my husband numerous times and got pregnant by the man I cheated with who I was madly in love with.(i was withthis man for a few months while split with my husband and continued the affair when I got back with my husband) I NEVER told my husband that the baby was not his and I had an abortion while my husband begged me to keep the baby, I told him I couldnt because I took exstacy.Anyway I have cheated in him with about 6 different me the most recent being this october 28, 08 and I got prgenant at the end of november but I'm pretty sure my baby is my husband.I did tell my husband that I cheated at the halloween party and he forgave me instantly and he knows of about 4 other times I cheated but I cant stop cheating.I cant have sex due to a procedure I had for this pregnany but if I didnt have that done I'm pretty sure id be having sex with my ex...i cant orgasm unless I'm having sex with a man other then my husband! ! ! ! !
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Naughtygirl
okay first off, you have to ask yourself if you love him, because there doesnt seem to be much love in this relationship and marriage, if your cheating on him constantly. and karma is going to bite you in the ass, and get a std. or AIDS.
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teekayy213
I'm not gonna judge you and be nasty, just give some friendly advice.

You should either stop this now, or leave your husband.
It's not fair to him to keep doing this! Whether he knows or not, it is cruel and deceitful. Think about your 6 year old. And about the person growing inside you. How do you think they would feel if they knew their Mommy was screwing other men?

I'm sorry, I really am because I'm sure you are a nice person, everyone has their redeeming qualities - but you are acting like a complete whore!
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Tangiepan
Well then, never mind.
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Mopy
Im a freak in bed and i know my husband he would never agree to let another man have me. Not to brag but once a man has been in bed with me he always wants to cum back and alot of the time will try anything to get me back. Now im not dumb i know thats not love its lust and the only man that loves me is my husband so i would not leave him but he will not agree to swinging. I did bring up the suggestion once and we even had a couple came to our house to hang out but he felt awakward and i wasnt even flirting with the man, me and the woman were getting to know each other. Btw iam also Bi sexual and he does not like that idea either so i cheat on him with both men and women..
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Naughtygirl
If he's cheated once, he obviously lusts after other people and probably wouldn't be opposed to acting upon it again. This makes him a prime candidate for a whole new lifestyle for the two of you.


Unless... You're not willing to be open to the concept of poly or swinging just because you get off at playing a badass, and it would totally ruin your carefully manufactured image and destroy your perversion if he played on par with you.
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Mopy
Ok he is NOT cheating. He cheater once 7yrs ago and had never done it again...So we are not swingers..
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Naughtygirl
Ummm.... When you're husband knows that you are cheating and he forgives you for it, and if he's cheated on you and you've forgiven him, you can't call it cheating anymore. You have to admit to being swingers or polyamourous. You're simply not monogamous, but very lucky for you, neither is he. So, just open the doors all the way and forget sneaking around about it. It'll probably improve your relationship at this point, or at least, it'll make it more honest.
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Mopy
That's the thing I love my husband soo much. He's a great guy. He takes care of us(I work too, make way more money then him but its more then just money). He cooks and cleans when I can't. Takes care of our son. Rubs my feet. Does laundry he's a really awesome guy and I would NEVER leave him for any other man cause I know there will never be another like him. Oh and I know he's cheated on me once when I was 2 months pregnant with our 6yr old and we were so young so I don't count that other then that I know he doesn't cheat. Its not that I don't love him and am looking to run away with another man I don't want any man but my husband. So I don't know why I cheat but its always feels so good. But it hurts to see the look in eyes the hurt he feels as he puts up with it year after year. He knows me very well so he knows when I'm cheating and he won't confront or say anything about it but he'll start like buying me things and acting more loving and spoiling me so that's how I know he knows. He loves me sooo much so I don't know why I'm always hurting him. What should or can I do?
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Naughtygirl
So it's just about sex, and your need to orgasm? Stop playing the cheating game :( Your husband loves you, why are you doing this to him? Even if he doesn't know, don't you feel bad about it? I mean, if you're just not into your husband anymore, you have the choice of ending it with him.