I'm afraid to leave.
Posted by spiritdancer on 10/17/2007 2:33:00 PM
I am currently married...whatever that means. I have been married more than once, but less than five times. My current husband has narcissistic behavior tendencies. He has many addictions to go along with this disease. He does just enough to keep me from leaving. He knows just what to say and do. But unfortunately it is never the right thing. I am afraid to leave because I don't know if I can make it on my own. How do I get the courage to walk away form this abusive person? I deserve a kind, gentle, loving life.
Tags: abusive, loveless, narcissistic
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RUN AS FAST AS U CAN AWAY FROM HIM, just pick up your stuff and go! Specially if u have kids...
take from someone who knows what hell it is to see you mother abused, or even a friend! If you can't face him and tell me than don't, so you won't change your mind just go!
If you can't do it for yourself than do it for your kids, friends or family members believe me they are suffering as much as you! There is nothing worst than seing a loved one being hurt!
JUST RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
take from someone who knows what hell it is to see you mother abused, or even a friend! If you can't face him and tell me than don't, so you won't change your mind just go!
If you can't do it for yourself than do it for your kids, friends or family members believe me they are suffering as much as you! There is nothing worst than seing a loved one being hurt!
JUST RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
Posted by Flower-Child on 10/20/2007 5:24:00 PM (Report abuse)
You go to the nearest womans shelter where you will meet women like you, who may be in the same boat and who usually turn out to be great friends as well as roommates! Never, never stay in a relationship that causes you any harm, mentally or physically or both. You are wasting valuable time where you could be so much happier on your on. Never think you cant do it. I did it with 2 children, no job, and no where to go. But took the advice of a good friend, and I got the courage to leave, and never look back. Dont worry about your husband, he is a big boy and can take care of himself. If he was going to do something, he would have already. Get out as fast as you can and enjoy life once again and give yourself time to get over this before you start back into another one. Girlfriend are your best support if you cant or dont have close family. Ask someone older than you whom you trust to confide in and see if you dont get the same support I give you..You can do it, just get up and do it, and NEVER look back...Run for your life..
Posted by Patti on 10/17/2007 11:32:00 PM (Report abuse)