I'm afraid...
Posted by karalovesyue on 11/3/2008 11:51:00 PM
I'm afraid to ever have sex because I'm not comfortable with my body.
I'm not extremly overweight, but I am farrr from skinny.& I have stretch marks.
I don't want anyone to see me naked, because I don't like my size.
I'm pretty sure a lot of girls feel this way, so could anyone find a way to reassure me differently?
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I'm not extremly overweight, but I am farrr from skinny.& I have stretch marks.
I don't want anyone to see me naked, because I don't like my size.
I'm pretty sure a lot of girls feel this way, so could anyone find a way to reassure me differently?
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I felt exactly the same, it takes time, but one day you'll just take your clothes off without even thinking about it because the person you're with will love you so much you won't be too shy :)
Posted by Lemonade on 11/6/2008 12:15:00 AM (Report abuse)
i felt the same until i found a guy that i was completely comfortable with.
and then i realised that the things about ourselved that we find imperfect, they like or most of the time dont even notice.
just find the right person.
and then i realised that the things about ourselved that we find imperfect, they like or most of the time dont even notice.
just find the right person.
Posted by kiki on 11/4/2008 9:26:00 PM (Report abuse)
Embrace your body for what it is. Learn to love it! Someone else will, too.
I'm 23, a size 12-14 ... I've come to terms with the fact that I will NEVER have that "perfect Hollywood" body (half of them are fake anyways!), and I have finally learned to love myself just the way I am.
Find parts of you that you LOVE.
For example, I love my hair. I love my eyes. I love my calves. :) I have pretty feet. I have a black girl's ass on a white girl's body ... woot! I stopped biting my fingernails 2 years ago and for once I like my hands - and I like painting the nails on my hands that I finally have.
:)
I'm 23, a size 12-14 ... I've come to terms with the fact that I will NEVER have that "perfect Hollywood" body (half of them are fake anyways!), and I have finally learned to love myself just the way I am.
Find parts of you that you LOVE.
For example, I love my hair. I love my eyes. I love my calves. :) I have pretty feet. I have a black girl's ass on a white girl's body ... woot! I stopped biting my fingernails 2 years ago and for once I like my hands - and I like painting the nails on my hands that I finally have.
:)
Posted by justme1985 on 11/4/2008 1:32:00 PM (Report abuse)
i had this problem as well.
i was incredibly self concious, and i would describe my body in much the same way as you do.
but once you are in a relationship with someone who loves you, which is the kind of relationsghip you should be in when you start having sex, your partner will love you for who you are, including your imperfections, and if they truly love you, they wont care if you're a little on the chubby side, or if you have stretch marks.
when you realise that they love your body, you will start to as well.
i was incredibly self concious, and i would describe my body in much the same way as you do.
but once you are in a relationship with someone who loves you, which is the kind of relationsghip you should be in when you start having sex, your partner will love you for who you are, including your imperfections, and if they truly love you, they wont care if you're a little on the chubby side, or if you have stretch marks.
when you realise that they love your body, you will start to as well.
Posted by tenpastsix on 11/4/2008 12:52:00 AM (Report abuse)