I'm afraid
I'm afraid that one day he'll give me a black eye and I'll have to go to work anyways. How could I possibly explain it?
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and when I said whats wrong with people, I WAS PISSED AT HIM FOR HITTING YOU, WAS WAS NOT MEANT TOWSRDS YOU! SORRY ABOUT THE MIS COMMUNICATION.
Posted by rrmag123 on 11/2/2009 5:33:00 PM (Report abuse)
I am not judgeing I am saying get out before its too late, my comment had nothing at all to do with judgeing you, only the abuser and I have been there before and let me tell you, yes it gets worse but all depends on the situation.. they are all different but for me the chair to his head was pretty clear to NEVER touch me again.
Posted by rrmag123 on 11/2/2009 5:30:00 PM (Report abuse)
i think the decision of what you should do.....i personally don't think people can change their ways unless they turly believe what they are doing is justifyable and whaever is the case just remember it is not ur fault....my fauther is abusive and i don't feel like its my fault but when he does all i can do is hide. but one way or another you should speek to him or someone about what is going on.....it will alimaltly be your decision though.
Posted by MyPersonalHeroin on 11/2/2009 4:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
rrmag123-
Don't judge. I used to say the same thing about women who stayed. Now I'm actually IN the situation and it's so much more confusing and difficult on so many levels... And btw, If you ever hit back make sure it's a knock out blow and you RUN because if not, it only gets more violent once he realizes you can defend yourself...
Don't judge. I used to say the same thing about women who stayed. Now I'm actually IN the situation and it's so much more confusing and difficult on so many levels... And btw, If you ever hit back make sure it's a knock out blow and you RUN because if not, it only gets more violent once he realizes you can defend yourself...
Posted by blueberrytea on 11/2/2009 4:06:00 PM (Report abuse)
yOU DONT, YOU GET OUT BEFORE HE DOES THAT!!! LET ME PUT IT BLUNT... IF HE DOESNT GIVE YOU A BLACKEYE, HE MAY KILL YOU! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE, SOMEONE HITS ME, THEY BETTER RUN VERY FAST CUZ THEY WILL GET THE SHYT BEAT OUT OF THEM.. DONT PUT UP WITH THAT SHYT, HE DOESNT DESERVE YOU!!!
Posted by rrmag123 on 11/2/2009 2:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
Explain it by saying your boyfriend is a complete fucktard and you've just left him and had him thrown in jail.
Sounds like a good explanation, no?
My sister-in-law's husband beat her up, and she had the good sense to divorce him. Now he has visitation rights on certain weekends for his kids, and he showed his gratitude for that by hitting his oldest son for trying to defend her. My suggestion is that you stop trying to explain away his behavior, leave him ASAP, and have him thrown in jail before there are kids in the picture for him to direct his abuse to later.
Sounds like a good explanation, no?
My sister-in-law's husband beat her up, and she had the good sense to divorce him. Now he has visitation rights on certain weekends for his kids, and he showed his gratitude for that by hitting his oldest son for trying to defend her. My suggestion is that you stop trying to explain away his behavior, leave him ASAP, and have him thrown in jail before there are kids in the picture for him to direct his abuse to later.
Posted by patheticity on 11/2/2009 2:15:00 PM (Report abuse)
What i assume your secrets about is your man is hitting you. never give any man who hits you a second chance, no matter what feelings you have, forget them. you shouldnt have to live in fear with a person you "love">
Posted by MagnumMatt on 11/2/2009 2:07:00 PM (Report abuse)