I'm bi but my husband doesn't know...
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/13/2007 2:21:00 AM
Well i'm attracted to females but i have never told anyone i like men to dont get me wrong but im married an have been for 6 yrs and i have had discreet sex with females should i tell my husband?
i dont know but its driving me crazy...
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i dont know but its driving me crazy...
Tags: cheating, bi, bisexual, husband, marriage
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Alright, a lot of the comments left on here for you are just plain ridiculous.. not to mention contradictory.
You can only do what you feel is best. Is your husband the jealous type? Would he approve of you being with other people without him? Would YOU approve of him being with other people without you?
Everyone is going to have different answers to those questions, but you know the situation the best. Firstly, you should communicate with him. If you want to be with him, let him know that, so he doesn't feel awful about it. I think at least a few intelligent guys will realize that a woman can please a woman in ways that he can't, and women know that men have those handy items of pleasure as well.. so if you like both, then that's your personal preference, and you shouldn't be ashamed of it.
Have you thought of inviting him to join you with another woman? That IS a pretty common male fantasy, so if you and the other girl are into it, then it might be a fun solution for everyone ;)
You can only do what you feel is best. Is your husband the jealous type? Would he approve of you being with other people without him? Would YOU approve of him being with other people without you?
Everyone is going to have different answers to those questions, but you know the situation the best. Firstly, you should communicate with him. If you want to be with him, let him know that, so he doesn't feel awful about it. I think at least a few intelligent guys will realize that a woman can please a woman in ways that he can't, and women know that men have those handy items of pleasure as well.. so if you like both, then that's your personal preference, and you shouldn't be ashamed of it.
Have you thought of inviting him to join you with another woman? That IS a pretty common male fantasy, so if you and the other girl are into it, then it might be a fun solution for everyone ;)
Posted by D on 11/20/2007 2:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
if you feel that you should tell him, then go ahead. but if he reacts in a bad way, you always got females there. and then you can get married with them. so if your husband understands he will act,.....mad at first....depressed second.....and then he'll come to an understanding. once he understands you have to choose 1 thing. boys or girls. it mite not be the easiest way but its the most responsive way.
I wish you the best!
I wish you the best!
Posted by Kool, not really on 11/12/2007 10:10:00 AM (Report abuse)
i think if u feel comfortable telling your husband then tell him but if u dont think u can try lettin him no in another way.
Posted by Superconfused09 on 11/8/2007 8:50:00 AM (Report abuse)
Just invite the man, if you have a bi-lover, you'll have'm both.
Posted by Bliss on 11/7/2007 5:42:00 PM (Report abuse)
Well everyone is bi one way. If a girl sees a superstar she'll probably say ,"Wow! She's hot or cool".
Maybe u should change ur ways. Listen 2 ur heart and if ur way of living makes u happy then continue. I don't advise u 2 tell ur husband.
Bye, take care.
Maybe u should change ur ways. Listen 2 ur heart and if ur way of living makes u happy then continue. I don't advise u 2 tell ur husband.
Bye, take care.
Posted by Cool on 10/25/2007 5:35:00 AM (Report abuse)
u dont hv to necessarily tell him if u change yr ways. please consider this & take care
Posted by Sass on 10/24/2007 9:58:00 AM (Report abuse)
Maybe you should let him know. If he hates you after that, don't blame me. :P
Posted by Anonymous on 10/16/2007 5:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
you can do it..
enjoy for your live
make you happy
enjoy for your live
make you happy
Posted by Ashari on 10/15/2007 11:43:00 PM (Report abuse)
i think you should let your husband know.
Posted by StrawberryLover on 10/15/2007 2:19:00 AM (Report abuse)
listen to ur heart. well baby i m too attracted to women
Posted by Ame on 10/14/2007 11:38:00 AM (Report abuse)
don't tell him, keep it as a secret...
Posted by Brett on 10/13/2007 11:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
I think may be you should tell your husband.Because your husband will know this things one of these fine days. Aren't you?
Posted by ben on 10/13/2007 3:41:00 AM (Report abuse)