Im in iraq and my wife wants to leave me.
Posted by Nonamepunk on 10/6/2008 4:00:00 PM
It all started a couple of months while I was deployed naturally things where sad.we talked to each other and told each other how much we miss each other...but then she started hanging out with other people and she cheated on me and buried her secret.....i went on leave around april and I was never happier.....once again...things got rought....and now she wants to leave me....all I did was love her to the fullest .i asked her to wait .I found out she was cheating on me because I was talking to one of her friends....and finally I guess I stopped her heart when I said the words " I know she hasnt cheated on me...so I will fight for her." and then she spilled her guts...my wife cheated on me with 2 guys and a girl.once I figured this out..i called her and told her I want a divorce...naturally after I learned that I felt a little relief from the knowledge......but now that relief is gone.....i find my self still inlove with her and willing to forgive...but I cant do anything till I go home...time is my enemy and I dont know if she will come with me.all I ever wanted was the unconditional love that I put in ever relationship.i have never cheated , and only wonder what can bring a person to do so.......i love her and I feel betrayed...but ultimatly I still want her......i hope she is there when I get off that bus from iraq....i just wonder if I can look at her the same.
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Maybe she was lonely but if she cheated on you with more than one person including someone of the opposite sex it doesn't bode well for A future together. I am so sorry this woman did this to you.But I would be angry at the bearer of this news it could have waited until you were home.I hope you stay safe and their are plenty of women who are faithful and deserve A man like you.If she is innocent and this was someone trying to cause trouble I would talk to your wife if I was you.God Bless you soldier
Posted by Angiesadeyes on 11/18/2008 1:31:00 AM (Report abuse)
i agree with a few other comments..
talk with her face to face, see what she says and how she feels.
maybe others are jelous of what you and her have, and its all lies.
if shes honest, then think about it.. can you trust her again if you leave?
do you still love her, and willing to start the rleationship from leval one again with trust, and honesty? does she still love you?
talk with her face to face, see what she says and how she feels.
maybe others are jelous of what you and her have, and its all lies.
if shes honest, then think about it.. can you trust her again if you leave?
do you still love her, and willing to start the rleationship from leval one again with trust, and honesty? does she still love you?
Posted by secert9lives on 11/11/2008 12:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
When you return from Iraq have a chat face to face and see where the marriage stands. Maybe you shouldn't believe the "friend" who told you that she cheated? There are always 2 sides to the story.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/10/2008 6:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
I'm sorry this is happening...
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/10/2008 3:12:00 PM (Report abuse)
I wish there were more men that thought like you! Where have they all gone. Willing to forgive. You've never cheated! WOW
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/27/2008 2:59:00 PM (Report abuse)
go with your heart talk with her before you make any decision. It is horrible for everyone when someone cheats, but sometimes you can get passed that. Its hard to figure this out until you return. Stay focussed on the real issues at hand and TALK TO EACH OTHER not AT EACH OTHER. Good luck and stay safe.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/12/2008 3:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
Eat cunt muffins for all I give a fuck. Thinking someone you dont know anything about should die is super messed up. This is lame
I only have one person to answer to and I'm not gonna do it here.
I only have one person to answer to and I'm not gonna do it here.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/9/2008 11:03:00 AM (Report abuse)
People like her need to d-i-e.
The end.
The end.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/8/2008 10:23:00 PM (Report abuse)
tell me when it went all wrong for you........when did you decide this and why....what couldnt you achieve if you where with me.........why. why did you do this. you say you love me. but you couldnt wait? i love you still this hurts me more than you can imagine i cry every night.. i cant eat sleep. i try to sleep but all of this has my head fucked up. it wont leave. that is why i call 50 million times. i dont know what happened. you said you'd love me forever and ive ssen that love and then it turned sour and slapped me in the face because i believed you. what the fuck. how can you just erase me. i feel so betrayed and i know something will happen when i get home.. and things will either get better or far worst than now....im just torn the fuck up from this........what happened. tell your side of the story. please.
Posted by Nonamepunk on 10/8/2008 1:37:00 AM (Report abuse)
i mean what did i do wrong!!!!!! what the fuck happened!!!
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/8/2008 12:18:00 AM (Report abuse)
well please miss -whore- Tell us your side of the story so we can know what exactly happened. when did the love stop... why couldnt you wait.....do you love him... did you love him?....why do this now to him in his time of need.... he obviously loves you more than you know. what happened...when did it all go wrong?
-unlucky soldier-
-unlucky soldier-
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/8/2008 12:17:00 AM (Report abuse)
Wow. Crappy situation. You say your still in love with her so you should ask her is she in love with you. Better yet, ask her if she still wants to be with you. IF she gives you a indirect answer then she doesn't want you. Do NOT settle. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Thats how it is. You deserve WAY better and keep searching. There is a whole world full of people and it just takes sometime to find the right one. Marriage is not the best way to go sometimes. So take your time searching for the "One".
Dr. Phil
Dr. Phil
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/7/2008 7:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
Maybe she wants to leave you because she's not some dumb whore. She's a human that made a mistake. Fuck. Maybe she loves you and wants whats best for you and knows that she is not it.
Its so cute how people can judge when they've only heard one side of the story.
Sorry
-thewhore
Its so cute how people can judge when they've only heard one side of the story.
Sorry
-thewhore
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/7/2008 4:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
Thats awful. She does not deserve you, trust me. You will find someone who will adore you completely, miss you every second that you're away, and crave your return.
Posted by Jotiii on 10/7/2008 10:37:00 AM (Report abuse)
No, you don't want her. Get rid of her. There can't be any trust with her anymore. You need someone who loves you as much as you love them. Your wife was being a straight up whore! She could have gotten pregnant or picked up an STD because she was being selfish. You're going to find a good woman one day. Move on from her. Divorce her. It will all be for the best!
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/6/2008 7:24:00 PM (Report abuse)