I'm in love with someone who doesn't love me back.

I have been there, in fact I am still there. I live with the love of my life, my best friend. He is the greatest person I have ever met and I feel that no one will ever love him as much as I do, because it would be impossible. We have been friends since middle school and here we are 10 years later. Still best friends, still crossing the friend line and still living together. People always assume we are together because we act like it. It hurts more then anything seeing him go out on a date or talk to another girl. Especially when I do everything and anything for him. But for the one minute he is holding me or laying next to me, I am the happiest girl in the entire world. I feel like I am the happiest I will ever be and when he is gone I am so sad. I know where you are coming from. But the truth is, tell him how you feel. I have done it and I have come to realize that we will never be more then friends. So I had to decide wether to take the few minutes of joy and the hours of pain or else...I could have nothing. At this time I have chosen to stay with him, prob a bad idea. I would say tell him and if he ignores you, then you have to get space and distance. That is the only way you can heal, you will never stop loving him, but you move on. You can find someone who appreciates you. I hope you do, so you don't get stuck afters years and years like me. I want you to find someone who deserves you love. Move on, we all deserve better.

oh my god...im so sorry...i DO know exactly how you feel. and i only say 'DO' because people always say they do when they dont and they have no idea how much pain your actualy going through. i have loved this guy for almost 3 whole years...i told him, and he acts like i didnt say anything at all. sometimes i get so upset, and i get that feeling, you know where you dont think your good enough for him, where you feel lower then anything in the world? and then you listen to sads music and cry your eyes out 'cause you love him so much, and you know hes never gonna love you back...and then you try to explain it to some one and they think your obsesive, or your crazy, or (the worst) that YOU dont know what your talking about, and you will get over him. heres a quote " love is like a pen, you can cross something out, but never erase it " . im sory, i know this isnt nesesaraly 'helping' but if you feel the way i do, then this will make you feel better knowing your not alone on this :)

If he doesn't care about you and you don't think he's going to then this will be hard. The only way I got over my ex who broke my heart was when I started really liking someone else. It kind of came out of no where too. As soon as I found someone that I thought was better, all my feeling for my ex just fell away. Maybe that will happen to you too.

kayla? is this you?