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Im married but in love with my lover

Posted by an anonymous user on 5/18/2008 5:26:00 AM
ive had a secret lover for 10 months now and im married, but im in love with my lover. is it so wrong for this to happen. i find myself fantisizing all the time about him. i only see him once or twice a month. i want to be around him all the time but i cant. i have never cheated before and this is all new to me, and the reason i cheated is b cuz at the time my husband and i were contiplating a divorce, but something happened to where we decided against it. anyway does this make me a slut or a bad person for falling in love with my lover? my lover doesnt know yet that im in love with with him yet. anyone...please i need advice bad...help!

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it's horrible! i just separated from my ex husban he cheated on me all the time..i decided to end with the relatinship, i had a really low selfsteem, i was depressed ..bad! until one day i met this wonderful man.he helped me a lot..he make me realize how beautiful i am and sexually was great he is married now i am involve in a situation that i always thoguth was wrong. He says he loves me and i do love him too. but he has a daugther and he loves her so much i have one too.. he is the love of my life and i am the love of his life..but we can't be together.
Posted by Lola on 8/15/2008 8:57:00 AM (Report abuse)
I was just told about 5 hours ago that my boyfriend of 2 years is having more feelings for his lover then myself. Just never tell them you love the other person more. It's better to not know.
Posted by Duh on 5/18/2008 8:50:00 PM (Report abuse)
Me too..only my lover is my best friend and he knows I love him. He loves me even though he knows we can never be completely together. He says that although he dreams of having me 100%, he will settle for whatever I can offer him just so he can be in my presence. I wish my husband exhibited that type of devotion, but he is a very selfish and harsh man. We have decided to stop being lovers because we don't want to loose our friendship, but I know he would drop everything if I said he could have 100%.
Posted by Angel on 5/18/2008 10:06:00 AM (Report abuse)
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