In love with my ex bf not my husband to be
Posted by nooneknowsme on 6/24/2008 11:09:00 AM
I still in love with my ex bf who abused me physically mentaly and emotionly, but I do not talk to anymore, more than the wonderful guy I'm marrying in two months......actualy I don't love him at at, I thought I did when I said yes.......but now I rather live my life in misory than to hurt him.
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Do your boyfriend a favour and dump him. No one should waste their lives with someone who doesn't love them. I'm sure he can do better than you.
Posted by Doogie howser on 6/27/2008 12:46:00 AM (Report abuse)
the only way to get over an ex is don't talk to him, don't see him, talk talk to people about him and don't even write in your diary about him... you need to block delete his IM contact... forget his email address... buy urself a new cell phone so that u don't c his contact and old SMS on ur phone anymore... this ex must b completely wiped out of ur life... otherwise u won't b able to move on... women r such crappy emotion-driven creatures... u need to cherish wot's in front of ur eyes...
good luck *hugz*
good luck *hugz*
Posted by Dawn on 6/25/2008 10:14:00 AM (Report abuse)
You may feel like you're in love with your ex boyfriend, but in your heart if you're recognizing (and accepting that he hurt you) deep down you probably just are in love with who you thought he was (chances are you don't love the man who beats you but rather who you thought he was)
As for your husband. You need to tell him your feelings. It's not fair to him. Sure. At first he'll be upset but in the end it'll be better off for him because he can find someone that will love him back and someone that will truly want to spend their life with him.
Do the right thing. (:
But...if I were you I wouldn't go back to the one that hurt you. NO ONE deserves that.
I hope this helps!
xoxoxo
As for your husband. You need to tell him your feelings. It's not fair to him. Sure. At first he'll be upset but in the end it'll be better off for him because he can find someone that will love him back and someone that will truly want to spend their life with him.
Do the right thing. (:
But...if I were you I wouldn't go back to the one that hurt you. NO ONE deserves that.
I hope this helps!
xoxoxo
Posted by Lyla on 6/24/2008 1:59:00 PM (Report abuse)