Please stand on ur feet. Look at ur kid. Do u think ur boss is Mr.Perfect? There is no such thing in life. U married ur husband coz u loved him at some point in life. U took vows. Love ur husband and ur kid. Be proud of it.
Posted by Miriam on 10/19/2007 4:43:00 AM (Report abuse)
Can you live just being the other woman and his "on the side only" while knowing he will never marry you? If you can you are kidding yourself and ruining your childs and your life. Get on with your life. The one for you does not have to be sought after, he will come to you unexpectedly. Do you want your child to grow up disrespecting you for being someone who may have been reponsible for destroying some other womans life and that of her childrens? Do you not have any repect for yourself to fall into such a lie from a man who will never really love you? You know he will tire of you someday and will pick up another woman who is just as mentally damaged as you..Get on with your life and quit dreaming, and quit ruining the life you have and that of your childs! Have some respect for yourself! You do know that if push comes to shove, you are out on your tail should someone have to leave their job because of inappropriate behavior in the office??
Posted by Patti on 10/17/2007 11:08:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hai I have no good words foryou.The first thing i would say is that people like you deserve hell and if your hasband finds out you will never be for given and you will be doomed for life no man will love you only using you. Go to hell
mike
Posted by MKANDAWIRE MIKE on 10/17/2007 12:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
A relationship with a married man is NOT ACCEPTBALE is civilized society. If you are a smart woman, you will realize that if he loved you, he would have married you.
Now that he's married, like most men, he would like a little extra bit on the side.
Ask yourself if you are going to be second best ... also ask yourself if you were his wife, would you appreciate him being with another.
Go get yourself your own man ... he's taken. You deserve to have someone love you and be number one in his life.
If you don't understand this, well, then you have a self-confidence problem and need some therapy
Posted by She Who Knows on 10/17/2007 11:36:00 AM (Report abuse)
make sure that ur boss love u or not............... then make a decision
Posted by Ame on 10/16/2007 10:38:00 PM (Report abuse)