In-sex-perienced.
I am still a virgin but I have done stuff with guys.the worrying part is that I'm scared -- I hate doing oral sex! I hate all of it, I feel like I'm rubbish at it and my self-conciousness makes me hate every minute of it.im worried that when the time comes for me to lose my virginity to somebody I really love, that I will still hate doing the oral stuff and this will make him not enjoy it either.i dont want this to ruin my sex life before its even started! I dont know what to do...
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oral sex is sex
Posted by confused311 on 4/30/2010 4:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
you dont have to do oral..not every guy wants you to do that..i know some guys who would prefer that you didnt..i even know some guys who dont expect it from the girl but would gladly do it for her..never feel pressured to perform any sex act because you wont enjoy it..and you will feel dirty..find a guy who doesnt pressure you to do it..and then maybe you will get comfortable with him and begin doing it because you want to do it to him..but its simple you dont like it dont do it
Posted by LifeIzLife on 12/15/2009 11:06:00 AM (Report abuse)
seriously, if you don't want to, and it's not a guy you're really in love with then don't do it. if a guy gets annoyed or something then their not worth it anyway
Posted by audreymarie on 12/7/2009 6:40:00 PM (Report abuse)
I think when you meet somebody you really love, things might feel different. And if you're both in love you'll soon learn what things each other does and doesn't like and accommodate that.
Posted by footlover77 on 12/7/2009 4:51:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hun lemme tell you something. If you don't like it don't do it. I was the same way. I met a wonderful guy who didn't care if I didn't like to have sex or give oral sex. Do we have sex yes but the first time he was very patient and as far as oral. I give it on occassion but I still don't really care for it. But my point is. If that person loves you back they will understand and be a okay with your opinion. As for now just don't do it ;)
Posted by an anonymous user on 12/7/2009 4:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
why don't you just stop!! i mean it's obvious that it's bothering you so just stop.
(sory if i sounded a little harsh)
(sory if i sounded a little harsh)
Posted by sexydarky on 12/7/2009 3:18:00 PM (Report abuse)