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Is it right?

Posted by an anonymous user on 10/29/2007 1:49:00 AM
Is it normal for a boyfriend and girlfriend to get physical? not exactly sex but oral sex is wat i mean.... Though v r engaged.. please reply :-(

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First of all: what is the difference between oral sex and sex itself? Everything is sex, so I apologize if I'm being rude, but it's pure hypocrisy to think that one is considered "less sex" than the other...

There is nothing wrong about having sex with your girlfriend, we are in 2007, 21th century! If sex was something so impure, God wouldn't have made a penis and a vagina to fit each other so perfectly! Forget what puritans says about having sex before marriage, it's pure bullshit, just an invention of a poison called RELIGION! There is nothing wrong with having sex, especially in your case, when there's love involved! So stop spending your time listening to what hypocrite people might think about you, have a great sex night (or day...) with your girlfriend, but be careful about pregnancy, diseases and stuffs like that.

Enjoy your girl and make love to her! Good luck! :)
Posted by Sol on 11/26/2007 11:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
That is totally normal and indeed it is very healthy. I enjoy it a lot with my girlfriend. 69 is one of the best positions we enjoy.

If you enjoy it with your partner, there is nothing wrong, just keep it for yourself and enjoy it.
Posted by John on 11/7/2007 7:16:00 PM (Report abuse)
Thank u superstar... but ahmeed u didnt understand what i meant.
Posted by Anonymous on 10/30/2007 6:11:00 AM (Report abuse)
yeah a bit i think not tottally sleepin with each other
Posted by Superstar on 10/29/2007 1:56:00 PM (Report abuse)
First I would like to say that you are a very sensible person that you are asking about things that seem normal to many people while they are not.
I don't think that is right. Though it is the normal thing nowadays, but that thing it is not good.
The thing is you should ask yourself the question why would you do it? Are you going to get married to the person. What if you don't? What is the use then? just for fun? then that makes us more like animals. For this thing is a sacred thing that should only be done in the proper way. What if you become pegnant in the process. And this happens a lot. look around you and think how many single mothers and illegal children are there. Bottom line doing things against normal is bad. It leads to problems. I am sure you have your brows up right now wondering what I mean? It is not normal having boyfriends and girlfreinds and sleeping with them around and then not get married. It was not like this 50 or 80 years ago and people used to be much better off. But we are becoming like animals.
I am sure this sounds funny for you, but it can give you a thought.
Posted by Ahmed on 10/29/2007 6:42:00 AM (Report abuse)
Have no clue what you mean. Most times we are confused because we cannot define what it is that we fear. Try to understand your problem and put it down in clear words. Once you define it your fear tends to dissolve itself. You have nothing to fear other than fear itself. Life is meant to be enjoyed
Posted by JeyR on 10/29/2007 5:42:00 AM (Report abuse)
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