Is This Ok
Posted by CloudedSky on 6/9/2008 2:08:00 PM
Ma gf is 4 years younger than me and im 18, and we have done stuff so is this ok or does it make me a pedo : / wot should i do
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uhh, i don't think its ok. You two are on completely different levels. You should definitely hold off on really doing anything for several more years. Forget the fact that having sex would be statutory rape, she probably doesn't really understand the consequences. Plus, at her age, she's young enough to think shes in love without actually being in love. If you really care for her, tell her you guys can be best friends and wait a few years
Posted by Hmm on 6/10/2008 4:26:00 PM (Report abuse)
What you're doing is statutory rape, and you could face a prison sentence if you are found having sex with this girl. This, however, does not make you a paedophile unless you are ONLY sexually attracted to children.
You are also 4 years older than her, and probably more emotionally and sexually mature. She is still a borderline child.
I think you should wait for her for a few more years.
If you both love one another, waiting shouldn't matter. But a prison sentence or teenage pregnancy DOES.
You are also 4 years older than her, and probably more emotionally and sexually mature. She is still a borderline child.
I think you should wait for her for a few more years.
If you both love one another, waiting shouldn't matter. But a prison sentence or teenage pregnancy DOES.
Posted by Caty on 6/10/2008 3:22:00 PM (Report abuse)
It doesn't make you a pedo if she really cares about you.
My boyfriend is 5yrs older then me, and we're fine. never have any problems.
The thing is, the only two people who can fully understand your relationship is you and your gf.
The only person who can really answer that question is you. If she was 18 would you still do that stuff the same?
My boyfriend is 5yrs older then me, and we're fine. never have any problems.
The thing is, the only two people who can fully understand your relationship is you and your gf.
The only person who can really answer that question is you. If she was 18 would you still do that stuff the same?
Posted by Saw on 6/10/2008 11:14:00 AM (Report abuse)
its okay if u love her enough cuz my bf is 18 n im 14 n we do stuff
Posted by GIRL2008 on 6/9/2008 11:26:00 PM (Report abuse)