Is this sexual abuse?
Posted by jadee on 5/5/2008 5:56:00 AM
when i was about 11 years old my next door neighbor and her children came over to babysit me when my parents went out. when the son thought i was asleep he would put his hand under the blankets into my panties and feel me up. i just laid there each time until it was over. he never had sex with me, just felt me up. it happened on numerous occasions. the weirdest and most horrible thing is that i forgot about it and dnt hate him for it, were friends up till today and don't connect him with that time during my life.
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If he REALLY thought you were asleep, then maybe it's sexual abuse. People don't stay asleep when you fondle them though! Was he your same age? But you certainly didn't seem to want it to stop, so I don't think you could call it sexual abuse.
Posted by JoeInRaleigh on 6/24/2008 12:25:00 AM (Report abuse)
I'd say it was.
I feel like that sometimes.
Some similar stuff has happened to me, like that.
I'm still on talking terms with some of those people.
I feel like that sometimes.
Some similar stuff has happened to me, like that.
I'm still on talking terms with some of those people.
Posted by Unknown on 5/5/2008 9:18:00 PM (Report abuse)
it is sexual harassment.
Posted by Suki on 5/5/2008 7:26:00 PM (Report abuse)
he probably remembers. so everytime you hang out it probably come to his mind. idk if that helps but im sure he feels guilty.
Posted by Lkfjgdsfl;kdjgs;k on 5/5/2008 6:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
technically it was and it could be possible that you just shut out those feelings until now..or your lucky enough not to be bothered by something like that....either way i wouldnt worry..it was long ago.
Posted by Jay on 5/5/2008 4:56:00 PM (Report abuse)
That happened to me.. i was about 17 though. and i was asleep and woke up to his hands down my pants.... i think its sexual abuse... no doubt about it.
Posted by Jenna on 5/5/2008 12:59:00 PM (Report abuse)