http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/The right place to post your secrets. It is abuse. You were both young, so maybe you excuse it. I guess that's ok. He probably really wanted you and he was a total perv doing that to you. I would bring it up and ask him about it. I'd ask... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14307623 02 Oct 2008 08:02:00 +0000 JoeInRaleigh If he REALLY thought you were asleep, then maybe it's sexual abuse. People don't stay asleep when you fondle them though! Was he your same age? But you certainly didn't seem to want it to stop, so... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14303637 24 Jun 2008 00:25:00 +0000 Unknown I'd say it was. I feel like that sometimes. Some similar stuff has happened to me, like that. I'm still on talking terms with some of those people. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14302171 05 May 2008 21:18:00 +0000 Suki it is sexual harassment. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14302168 05 May 2008 19:26:00 +0000 Lkfjgdsfl;kdjgs;k he probably remembers. so everytime you hang out it probably come to his mind. idk if that helps but im sure he feels guilty. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14302165 05 May 2008 18:52:00 +0000 Jay technically it was and it could be possible that you just shut out those feelings until now..or your lucky enough not to be bothered by something like that....either way i wouldnt worry..it was long... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14302149 05 May 2008 16:56:00 +0000 Jenna That happened to me.. i was about 17 though. and i was asleep and woke up to his hands down my pants.... i think its sexual abuse... no doubt about it. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/is-this-sexual-abuse/14300787/#c14302146 05 May 2008 12:59:00 +0000