What? You expect me to feel broken up about someone who I never knew and may not have existed? Just because you feel the loss doesn't mean anyone else who never knew them will. Unlike all these other fake sympathisers, I'm not going to pretend to be all sad about it when I'm not.
You tried to talk her out of it. She did what she wanted to do anyway. That's what happens, because almost anyone willing to do that is being selfish and not thinking about anyone else. There's nothing anyone can say or do to change the mind of a determined suicide, just as there's pretty much nothing anyone can do or say to cause a person to commit suicide against their will.
Don't bother to blame yourself, it's pointless and won't change what happened. Accept that it happened. Accept that there was nothing anyone could have done to change what happened. Accept the loss. And then accept that you shared good times. Accept that you cared about them. Accept that you've reacted to them not being there any more, and accept that it's ok for you to do so.
Awww :( that's so sad. I can't believe her mother did that. My friend blew his brains out in front of me...I tried to stop him but I got there too late. And I'm probably not helping your situation :( sorry
i aint got a phone and her mom handed her a knife and told her to do what she shoulda done long ago i tried to tell her she didnt mean it but... she has had too much
