Last month

There was this awesome party that I went to.I got wasted, (which isn't like me.I've never gotten drunk once in my life time) and well...It was pretty bad I had unprotected sex with this guy I've been crushing on for months but it never occurred to me he didn't have a condom until the morning .I took the morning after pill and one month later....I miss my period.I took a pregnancy test and it says I'm pregnant.I can't be a mom at 19 my life is just starting! I'm in college and I'm doing very well and I can't have this one mistake ruin my life.I don't know what to do.I don't have money for an abortion and Idk how "supportive" my parents will be with this.I was warned before I left.They said I'm on my own and I only get 1000 dollars a year from them as long as I don't come to them with my "shenanigans".This is what I have to turn to.How can I support a child? I feel like just committing suicide....But I know that's the easy was out.And I can't...

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anonymous user
Yeah, you defiantly are.
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anonymous user
Ahhh but I'm not really "bashing" them am I, nor am I hoping to be seen as "tough".
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Cynic
"probably have been" is not the same as "definitely have been".
Bashing people through the internet doesn't make you tough.
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Chava
Like I suggested before, this one would probably have been unemployable anyway, so you'd be paying one way or the other.
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Cynic
If she "goes on welfare anyway" then she'll be our problem because we're paying for all those welfare rats.

Why don't you look up possibilities of abortion?
And I don't really care about anyone that's going to bash me for saying this. I'm pro-choice, therefore I have my own opinion.
Just don't get abortions left and right.

It's easy to say that you should sleep in the bed you made, but just do what you have to. If you can't handle it, then don't go through with it. No one should judge you for the decisions you make; Everyone has shit they go through, so judging isn't going to help.
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Chava
It was pretty bad I had unprotected sex with this guy I've been crushing on for months but it never occurred to me he didn't have a condom until this morning.I took the morning after pill and one month later....I miss my period.
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I guess having problems figuring out what day/month/year it is is also a "spelling error" huh? Because today's the morning after, and a month later at the same time.

(BTW when people get pregnant they usually miss their period 2 weeks later, not 4 weeks later. just saying.)
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Cynic
Yeah I see that.
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anonymous user
Spelling error jackass.
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anonymous user
Based on the fact that you don't know the difference between "wasted" and "waisted", I'm thinking you'd have ended up on welfare anyway.

No significant loss here.
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Cynic
See, the problem is you keep saying you can't do all this stuff. Turns out, you CAN do it. Because it's HAPPENING. Stop being in denial and be an adult -- you were enough of an adult to decide you could handle drinking (illegally) and having illicit sex with someone you aren't in a relationship with (while not on birth control and not putting any effort into protecting yourself OR your partner), sounds like you are absolutely ready for this.

Yes, kids, hedonism is bad.
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GoodLuck
Find that guy
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Nikes

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