I mean think about when you were 13.
When I was 13 I was...in 8th grade, could just barely see PG13 movies by myself, not even fully grown, still shopped in the childrens section, and had to ask my parents for permission before I went anything.
If you have to get driven somewhere by your parents and you have to ask them for permission before you can do anything, then you are too young to have sex.
And another thing, stop saying you're in love.You've been going out with a guy for a month and you're in love? really? if you are 13 you don't really know what love is! I'm way older than that and I don't even know what love it.I wish adults these days would teach kids that everything they hear in justin beiber and taylor swift songs is not true.when I was in middle school I wanted a boyfriend soooo bad, but now that I look back I realize how unbelievably stupid that is because when I was in 7th grade I had no idea what a relationship was.If you are 13, your top priority should not be giving head, it should be learning about who you are cuz when you get to high school and college you are going to realize that being confident and aware of who you really are is what is going to make you happy.not some boy who told you he loved you when you were in 8th grade then dumped your sorry ass when he took your virginity.
I'm not saying that you should save yourself till marriage or that you should even wait for someone you love, but if you know you are ready to have sex and that you can handle the aftermath whatever it may be then go right ahead.But for those of you who are in 8th or 9th grade or even younger you should really wait to learn more about who you are and what you feel comfortable with because if you just have sex because some guy wants to you are gonna get a big shock when you realize it's not all it's cracked up to be.honestly you aren't going to enjoy it till you've done it a ton of times, so it's not like there isn't any big deal about rushing it.