Little lie big lie
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/19/2008 9:29:00 PM
i have been lying to myself about how much i love my wife for almost 15 years. now i've finally met someone who makes me feel all those things that i pretended. but now i have two kids...and i want to remain good friends with my wife. i want to be there, and be a good dad. but if i met her today, i would not marry her. i would pursue this other person. and they're both going to find out eventually.
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It's simple. You got too comfortable in your marriage. Now.... when you feel restful you want to abandon the commitment you made to your wife and children.
The other women is a slut, and as soon as she finds out you gave up your ideal life for her,she will move on to her next sucker!
You must be a fucking retard to not even see what is happening.
The other women is a slut, and as soon as she finds out you gave up your ideal life for her,she will move on to her next sucker!
You must be a fucking retard to not even see what is happening.
Posted by Lu Lu on 7/22/2008 2:21:00 AM (Report abuse)
Tricky.
Too many unknown factors here.
Is this merely an infatuation, are you looking for an excuse to leave your wife?
And if you do, how do you know this lady you love feels the same way towards you?
If the lady doesn't love you, you may turn your life upside down for no reason.
You can find out without how the lady feels without crossing the line into an affair.
That would be the first thing to find out.
If the lady does feel the same, then you should be realistic about how your wife may deal with a divorce. 'Leaving her' may provoke a very different reaction than 'leaving her for someone else'.
Ask yourself the question, would I leave if this other person wasn't in the picture?
I hope you find what you are looking for.
Too many unknown factors here.
Is this merely an infatuation, are you looking for an excuse to leave your wife?
And if you do, how do you know this lady you love feels the same way towards you?
If the lady doesn't love you, you may turn your life upside down for no reason.
You can find out without how the lady feels without crossing the line into an affair.
That would be the first thing to find out.
If the lady does feel the same, then you should be realistic about how your wife may deal with a divorce. 'Leaving her' may provoke a very different reaction than 'leaving her for someone else'.
Ask yourself the question, would I leave if this other person wasn't in the picture?
I hope you find what you are looking for.
Posted by Isthatyou007? on 7/21/2008 8:03:00 PM (Report abuse)
I don't know what you should do but, it must be very hard to feel the way you do because, I feel the same way as well about my husband. I want to be his friend and raise our kids together but, I don't think that our marriage is a good thing for us. It's not fruitful. I wish you well sir.
Posted by Anonymous on 7/21/2008 3:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
A lie is a lie
talk to them and do what your heart tells you
maybe this new girl could be the love of your life...... but no matter what you also need to stop pretending with your wife.
talk to them and do what your heart tells you
maybe this new girl could be the love of your life...... but no matter what you also need to stop pretending with your wife.
Posted by Peyton on 7/20/2008 10:49:00 PM (Report abuse)