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Lonely, so lonely

Posted by an anonymous user on 6/27/2008 6:25:00 PM
my god I am so seriously lonely..

I am surrounded by couples the whole time, I have become the worlds biggest 3rd/5th/7th or 9th wheel...
the two of my best friends at school have boyfriends, one of which i was madly in love with..still not easy to see them together.. and the other's boyfriend doesn't go to our school.. she still talks about him continuously.
My other two friends are going out with each other.. they practically had sex at our prom..next to me.. nice...
And so there's me and 2 boys who are getting lonely and sick of all the couples, one very religious girl who doesn't want a boyfriend, and one boy who doesn't seem bothered..

I also have my parents, my sister and her boyfriend, my brother and his wife, and my other brother and his fiancee.

I'm so sick of seeing everyone happy and in love..why can't i have that.


Tags: lonely, depressed

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I completely understand what you're going through. All my friends are 19, and they have boyfriends that are 23 or 24. The thing is, I realize that they aren't dating and having sex with these guys becuase they honestly believe they have a future with them, they're just flings to them. And while not ALL relationships have to be completely serious, what's the point in settling with a guys you don't love, or aren't really attracted to, just so you feel like you belong. Stay strong and know that you're not alone :)
Posted by Sarah on 6/29/2008 3:01:00 PM (Report abuse)
I know what you mean by being lonely. My 4bff's all have boyfriends and I'm the only single one. It sucks because everytime we go out I'm the 3rd wheel. But I've realized that if I get into a relationship now it'll be so I don't feel left out in my group.

The last thing you want is to be in a relationship for pity reasons. Remember its the summer and its more fun to be single and free to party !

You don't need a man to make you happy. Enjoy the summer, enjoy the beach, and enjoy the "eye candy."

xoxo, bvgb
Posted by Erika on 6/28/2008 10:36:00 AM (Report abuse)
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