Love Help!!

Posted by hales45454 on 11/10/2007 9:48:00 AM

I like this guy who goes to my school and we've known each other for 2 years, we're friends, but I don't know if he likes me. And at our school there was a dance he went and my 2 other friends went and me. We had fun and I thought he liked me 2, but at the end of the dance I found out that he liked one of my friends. I don't know what to do. I sorta still like the guy. Should I give up on the guy? Should I hate my friend? Should I not talk to eather of them, or should I try to get the guy back? I NEED HELP!!!

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I was in the same situation in high school, I wanted my ex-boyfriend back & my best friend wanted him to (although I never knew that) & she slept with him one night. Came to school the next day wearing his jacket claiming that they were boyfriend/girlfriend. What a slap in the face - everyone knew we were close to getting back together. The moral to this: obviously he didn't want me back truthfully & I kicked them both to the curb. Years down the line my girlfriend & I became friends again. But to this day I still don't have full trust in her.

Posted by Tasha on 11/12/2007 3:11:00 PM (Report abuse)

so sorry. this is a bad situation. if you sorta like him get out a piece of paper and write down all of the cons and pros of you going out with him and telling him truthfully. Then pick the side you think is best. you'll figure out that there are other people out there, looking very similar to him. So don't get down if your friend goes out with him, because theres always a next time with someone new. but, if you nevr ask him, will you ever find out if he said that he likes your friend cuz he's embarrased to admit it? that happens alot with people. But if you really like him then you should tell him your feelings in a way that doesnt necissarily mean you. then you can know without using your name and if he doesnt like you, either try harder to get him to like you, or find someone else.

Good Luck!!!

Posted by Dude,..... on 11/12/2007 10:02:00 AM (Report abuse)

How is it your friend's fault this guy likes her? You have several choices. No one can make them but you. First you must talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. You two can either both give the guy up and neither of you goes out with him, no matter what. Or you can tell him how you feel and agree with your friend to let him decide which of you he likes more. Be prepared, though. If he likes you more, your friend may be quite mad, even if she did agree to let him decide. And you might be pretty ticked off in the same situation. Or he might get mad that he was put in the situation and not talk to either of you. You and your friend need to figure it out first, though. But don't be mad at her. And if you only "think you sorta still like him", is it really worth losing a friend over?

Posted by I know on 11/11/2007 7:56:00 PM (Report abuse)

Hi there, i think u should tel dis guy how u feel some how, either buy writing a letter, or callin him up or if u have the guts the best way to do it is face to face that way u can see his reaction. there r somethings that u should tel ppl face to face & not over the fone. however u dont know how he feels & if u dont tel him u will NEVER KNOW.

All the best luv oxox

Posted by David on 11/11/2007 12:50:00 AM (Report abuse)

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