Married 2 years, but have fallen for a friend.
Posted by aliczmow on 7/6/2008 7:05:00 PM
It started when my sister and I went to a friends' wedding in Mexico. I hadnt seen this particular person in years. So when I saw him at the wedding it was a wonderful friend reunion for us. We all had a great time together catching up on past memories.
I have been married for two years now. Everything is ordinary. My husband and I have many differences, but we balance it all out. We do argue regularly about dumb, annoying things. In turn, he does what he wants to do and I do what I want to do. We have hobbies that we enjoy together,but those hobbies are starting to fade away. He has alot of friends that he hangs out with, I dont. Friends are first with him. I have always been the 7th wheel. It is sad to say, but since marrying him I have lost alot of "electricity" between us. It's just not there anymore.
Now going back to my long lost friend. We have an "electricity" that I didnt have when I first met my husband. I feel that it is because him and I go way back-from middle school activities, church, having the same friends, being from the same town and enjoying the same places to go. It was my 10 year reunion a weekend ago and my classmates hit the bars/party scene. We had a wonderful time and it was even a more wonderful time when I bumped into my friend. I hadnt seen him since the wedding a year ago and it was so heartwarming to see him now. I had gotten butterflies in my stomach when I saw him. We ended up hanging out all weekend. (My husband was on a camping trip with friends.) We had a great time together and with our friends He said some subtle, innocent things that really made me question how he feels for me. He knows I am married and always asks where my husband is, but of course I say ohh he is doing his things this weekend. I really like him and he makes me feel special when we are out with friends. This past weekend I could tell he wanted to say more, but knows he cant. My feelings as a friend grows stronger for him everytime I see him. I just dont know what to do or say.......
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I have been married for two years now. Everything is ordinary. My husband and I have many differences, but we balance it all out. We do argue regularly about dumb, annoying things. In turn, he does what he wants to do and I do what I want to do. We have hobbies that we enjoy together,but those hobbies are starting to fade away. He has alot of friends that he hangs out with, I dont. Friends are first with him. I have always been the 7th wheel. It is sad to say, but since marrying him I have lost alot of "electricity" between us. It's just not there anymore.
Now going back to my long lost friend. We have an "electricity" that I didnt have when I first met my husband. I feel that it is because him and I go way back-from middle school activities, church, having the same friends, being from the same town and enjoying the same places to go. It was my 10 year reunion a weekend ago and my classmates hit the bars/party scene. We had a wonderful time and it was even a more wonderful time when I bumped into my friend. I hadnt seen him since the wedding a year ago and it was so heartwarming to see him now. I had gotten butterflies in my stomach when I saw him. We ended up hanging out all weekend. (My husband was on a camping trip with friends.) We had a great time together and with our friends He said some subtle, innocent things that really made me question how he feels for me. He knows I am married and always asks where my husband is, but of course I say ohh he is doing his things this weekend. I really like him and he makes me feel special when we are out with friends. This past weekend I could tell he wanted to say more, but knows he cant. My feelings as a friend grows stronger for him everytime I see him. I just dont know what to do or say.......
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You need a friend. your husband is obviously not being one. Go for the butterflies.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/3/2008 7:13:00 PM (Report abuse)