My boyfriend and I
Posted by an anonymous user on 6/25/2008 3:09:00 AM
got into a fight and he slapped the shit out of me.
I was fighting back but he is much stronger than me and when I finally fell to the floor, he held my face and then he broke down and cried and asked me why did I do this to him? over and over again.
I will never forget that day as long as I live.
He is firefighter. I am so proud of him. I love him and he loves me. But I've never been hit before in my life.
I forgive him because I pushed him to even get to the point where he would want to hit me.
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I was fighting back but he is much stronger than me and when I finally fell to the floor, he held my face and then he broke down and cried and asked me why did I do this to him? over and over again.
I will never forget that day as long as I live.
He is firefighter. I am so proud of him. I love him and he loves me. But I've never been hit before in my life.
I forgive him because I pushed him to even get to the point where he would want to hit me.
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try and talk to him, if he loves you like you say he does, he will have had a reason for acting that way to you. it was really wrong of him to do that, and by rights you should walk out, but if you feel like you can't, try and talk about it. maybe if he sees how he hurt you emotionally as well as physically, he will realise how his temper got out of control and get help so that it doesnt happen again.
be safe
be safe
Posted by Han on 7/27/2008 9:03:00 AM (Report abuse)
NEVER WAS YER FAULT
Posted by Orange Skittle on 7/26/2008 3:18:00 PM (Report abuse)
I agree with annalouise
Get out of the relationship before you decide to get married and have kids. Kids who will see their dad hit their mother. Then you will be one of those women who feel stuck in a relationship and are too afraid to leave. Hits you once, hits you twice. Not your fault for getting hit the first time but your fault for staying and getting hit again.
Get out of the relationship before you decide to get married and have kids. Kids who will see their dad hit their mother. Then you will be one of those women who feel stuck in a relationship and are too afraid to leave. Hits you once, hits you twice. Not your fault for getting hit the first time but your fault for staying and getting hit again.
Posted by Doogie howser on 6/27/2008 12:42:00 AM (Report abuse)
Um, excuse ME but I don't know what my post has anything to do with my stupidity? I don't believe I acted in a stupid way at all. I was just writing out my emotions, the lingering anger/pain/hate/sadness that I had about that day. Don't you dare judge me for what happened. You are telling me not to victimize myself, and then you try to make me feel guilty because I became a victim? Great reasoning. How dare you tell me not to have children, or "just walk away"- do I think I wanted this to happen? If it was just that easy to "walk away," why would anyone choose to get killed by their husbands, or get raped, or continue to smoke crack? You don't even know the half of it so take your ignorant judgements elsewhere.
Posted by Anonymous on 6/26/2008 9:31:00 PM (Report abuse)
ITS NOT YOUR FALUT THAT HE HIT YOU.
THat is HIS falut.
Leave him.
THat is HIS falut.
Leave him.
Posted by Lyla on 6/25/2008 4:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
excuse me? NO. This is NOT your fault. There is no reason for any one to feel they have the divine right to put their hands on ANYONE. EVER. It's YOUR job and HIS job to walk away when things get out of control. People don't MAKE anyone do ANYTHING. IF that was the case we could MAKE pedophiles not molest children, we could MAKE teen moms mature enough to raise the babies they have. We all have CHOICE and how DARE you let him make YOU responsible when he had the full chance to walk away from the situation. If this is the way you think, neither ONE of you deserves to be in ANY relationship until you GROW UP and PULL YOUR HEADS OUT OF YOUR RESPECTIVE ASSES. The world sucks enough without your stupid reasoning afoot. NOW GET REAL. And for GOD's sake DON'T have children. You have NO RIGHT to perpetuate another cycle of STUPIDITY in this world when we've all got enough to deal with already.
Posted by Annalouise on 6/25/2008 2:14:00 PM (Report abuse)