My husband told me he had another child
Posted by rgw on 7/30/2008 1:33:00 PM
I am a 26 year old wife who has been married to her husband for 2years and he had been hold a secert from me for a longtime. Now i must say that our marriage has not been great everyday we have had our ups and down but I meant my vowels too him. In March of 2007 he left me when i was pregant with his 1st child because he need a break and he didnt want to be married anymore. So i was hurting through my hold pregancy because my husband left me. When he left he had met another women who he was with. While i was crying to him everyday to come back home so we could be a family but he didnt want to because he was out cheating with her.
Well when i had the baby we got back together and we both wanted to work on our marriage so I thought everything was fine I was so happy we where raising our kids together... but some time he would still say he didnt want to be married from time to time and everything could be going so good in our lives and I would always wonder why he would be doing this.
So he just told me when he left the girl he was sleeping with got pregant and she was supposed to have an abortion but never did and she ended up at his job in Jan,2008 and told him he had a son with her. My husband took the paternity test and told his family and never told me his wife!!!!
He's family was posting pictures of his other child on myspace and i had them as friends on my myspace page. It has been some messed up things going on and I am hurting!!!! So he finally told me himself 2weeks ago and my only question is can i talk to the women he cheated on me with? Do i have the right to talk to her? What in the hell should I say to her?
I need help with this,
R.G.W
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Well when i had the baby we got back together and we both wanted to work on our marriage so I thought everything was fine I was so happy we where raising our kids together... but some time he would still say he didnt want to be married from time to time and everything could be going so good in our lives and I would always wonder why he would be doing this.
So he just told me when he left the girl he was sleeping with got pregant and she was supposed to have an abortion but never did and she ended up at his job in Jan,2008 and told him he had a son with her. My husband took the paternity test and told his family and never told me his wife!!!!
He's family was posting pictures of his other child on myspace and i had them as friends on my myspace page. It has been some messed up things going on and I am hurting!!!! So he finally told me himself 2weeks ago and my only question is can i talk to the women he cheated on me with? Do i have the right to talk to her? What in the hell should I say to her?
I need help with this,
R.G.W
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I don't know what you expect to solve by having any contact with this woman. Beating her, like others have said won't solve anything either. My advise to you is to LEAVE this son of a bitch and let him go his merry way impregnating women and cheating on them. He's a real loser and you don't need him to make your life complete. Be a strong women and LEAVE.
Posted by Babyhedred on 8/1/2008 10:07:00 AM (Report abuse)
Wow.
Beat that bitch,
and the bastard.
Leave your husband, he doesn't deserve you.
Beat that bitch,
and the bastard.
Leave your husband, he doesn't deserve you.
Posted by Joti on 7/31/2008 4:46:00 PM (Report abuse)
wow i cant believe that you have gone through such a terrible time.
i would leave him and find a new man. but, you probably need him for stability right?
think about this: do you really want your baby to grow up knowing that his dad always cheats on his mom and that you put up with it??
i would leave him and find a new man. but, you probably need him for stability right?
think about this: do you really want your baby to grow up knowing that his dad always cheats on his mom and that you put up with it??
Posted by Kk7 on 7/31/2008 11:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
i couldn't imagine what your going through.
but i think you have every right to talk to her.
i mean after all she was sleeping with your husband,
honestly i'd beat the bitch
teach her to sleep around.
but i think you have every right to talk to her.
i mean after all she was sleeping with your husband,
honestly i'd beat the bitch
teach her to sleep around.
Posted by Problemmms. on 7/30/2008 11:02:00 PM (Report abuse)