My sister's boyfriend raped me.

I'm fifteen and live with my older sister.She is 27.Her and her fiance have a three year old daughter together and they seem like the perfect little family.Except right from the very beginning he has absolutely hated me.He always says shit about my mom abandoning me and that not even she could love me.Of course my sister doesn't know what's going on and she thinks I'm being hostile towards him.

It's ok.I could have lived with that but the other night when my sister was working late and my niece was with her grandma he came into my room drunk, pushed me down on the bed and raped me.

I don't know what to do.I'm terrified if I tell my sister that she won't believe me and she'll kick me out and I have no where else to go.I'm scared of what he'll do when he knows that I told but I'm so scared he'll do it again.I don't know what to do.
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anonymous user
TELL BIG IMPORTANT PEOPLE
but dont let anyone kno you told
this is a huge issue do not let it go
or try to forget it
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0bsessed93
three words hun TURN HIM IN!! ive been raped and never turned it in i regret that
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cassie
Turn him in!!

I was raped a few years ago and I was so scared, I never turned him in. I told my husband and that was it. He wanted me to turn him in, but I was so scared and weak. I completely regret it. It has completely messed my life up. I live in fear!

...I am so ashamed. The shitious thing about it was that he WAS my best friend, who is in the army. Uck.


Turn him in!
Turn him in!
You'll hate yourself if you don't!
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Bisexualloser
re richard;

Are you a fucking rapist yourself? Because I find it hard to understand as to why you're telling her not to go to the police when that is something she needs to do. God you are a sick cunt. If she just tells her sister, it is very likely that she won't even believe her! Do you realise that there are a lot of people who tell family members and then when they find out they just dismiss it? The woman is fucking marrying the guy, she probably wouldn't listen to her sister and just dismiss it as lies, and maybe even kick her out onto the street. Have some fucking sense you idiot.
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Napalm
please tell so she will know what kind of man he is before she marries him
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kissmebelow
Ok Richard, and if she tells no one and he starts raping his own daughter, then the sister finds out that he did it to someone else a long time ago, she'd be pretty pissed off that she wasn't able to protect her own child! He needs to pay the price for what he did! You are obviously a man, what kind of fucked up world do you live in?

Honey go to a doctor, they can do a rape kit on you, hopefully there is still enough evidence to get so you will have proof. You need to tell your sister, or someone you can trust, a teacher, friends mother, any adult you feel close to. He could be raping more girls and maybe one day your niece. i know this is hard, but if your sister won't believe you, is it any bettter living in a house where there are demons? If you get the ball rolling, the authorities will help you, he needs to be removed from that house, especially if minors are involved.

Good luck, I will be thinking of you.
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puglys
I can garuntee that everyone is going to tell you to sit there and tell someone or go to the police. Do pardon my assumptions if I am wrong, but if I am right or almost correct, you should listen to me.

Do you want your neice to know that her father left her when she was young over raping you? Do you want what little of a family you have to resent you? Don't go to the police, because all it will do is make them suffer finacially and emotionally. I sound like an emotionless pig, but think about it, alot of futures are at stake over something like that. It's his fault I will admit, but your role in the plot can be even worse than his.

Sure, we got morals against rape, and we got our feelings, but living with a dark secret is alot easier than you think. You can leave me a rude comment if you want, but the last thing I would reccomend you doing is going to the police. Sorry.
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Richard
You got to tell your sister before you go to police.Tell her,its important or otherwise he'd do it again and again.Take action now.
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gul
Don't worry, there is something very simple that you can do that will end it all.
Go to the police. They will listen to you and they will care because rape is a disgusting crime that has to be punished. Tell them everything that happened, be absoloutely clear and honest, don't lie about anything because they will know you are lying and if you lie, they won't believe you.
If only you had gone right after it happened, because then they would have done what is called a "rape kit" on you (to sample traces of his DNA) and convicted him right away.

But never mind all that, just to go your nearest police station, tell them, they will take him away for good and you will be safe. Do it now, don't let him get away with what he did to you because if you don't talk to the police, he will do it again and again.
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Napalm
I am so sorry, that must've been horrible. But, out of love for your sister and the situation, you need to tell an adult you can trust, and both of you can talk to your sister about it. You shouldn't have to be around a jerk like that, and your sister should know that he is a monster. Best of luck! :)
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