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My stepfather is trying to rape me

Posted by Nicky14 on 5/18/2009 9:53:00 PM (Report abuse)
I'm so scared I cried the whole time home I'm criyng right now.my mom asked me wat was wrong I told her tht I got into a fight wit my friend.but the truth is I tried to run away cos her boyfriend ws telling me shit like how he dreams of licking my pussy.i ws dying inside my real dad always tried to rape me and i've kept qiet for alomst .6yrs and now hes tring to rape me I cut myself like 50 times and felt like shit cos my mom asked me and I told her tht I felt like doing it so I did it and she started crying.today I told my bff and her mom and they were just pressuring me.And I think idk wat to do I'm so ashemd and scared if I dont tell my mom he will hurt me and if I tell her I will hurt her too cos she loves him can some1 please tell me wat to do

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suicide is the best thing u can do
Posted by an anonymous user on 12/6/2009 6:12:00 PM (Report abuse)
im so sorry about your situation.i too was violated by my mom ex boyfriend who made it to be my fault.i told my mom 5 years layer,still i not healed,ive been married for 7 years dont trust my husband or any man around my kids
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/29/2009 8:44:00 PM (Report abuse)
seriously what the fuck is with rapists i fucking hate rapists!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by ganjadragonnn on 7/8/2009 9:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
Please tell your mum, i waited 6 or 7 yeras before i told my mum about mu abuser and now as an young adult i just wish i'd told everyone sooner. Take care my darling, my heart really bleeds for you.xxxxxxxx
Posted by an anonymous user on 5/31/2009 2:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
fIRST OF ALL YOU WILL HURT YOUR MOM BY NOT TELLING HER!! DO YOU WANT YOUR MOM TO BE INVOLVED WITH A COWARD LIKE THAT? DO THE RIGHT THING AND TELL HER, THAT IS NOT OK TO HOLD IN AND IF YOU DONT HE MAY DO THAT TO SOME OTHER INNOCENT CHILD! YOU DONT WANT THAT ON YOUR MIND TOO DO YA? TALK TO HER RIGHT NOW! PLEASE.
Posted by rrmag123 on 5/19/2009 11:04:00 AM (Report abuse)
u need to tell your mom urgently..dun wait...tell her now
Posted by gul on 5/19/2009 10:20:00 AM (Report abuse)
I've been sexually abused by multiple men throughout my childhood and abused in almost every single category you may name, for which I won't elaborate on because of the length. I grew up so angry at the world because I suppressed so many secrets. I threw angry tantrums and went into rages that I couldn't remember and why I was angry in the first place (I knew at a point that I could've been institutionalized). For your physical and mental well-being, I'm certain you know the answer to your own question. Don't be afraid to let the truth be known. Tell your mother. She sounds like she'd be a lot more understanding. If she isn't willing to listen and understand your position, you should tell an authority. It's inconceivable to sacrifice your well-being for your mother's happiness when it seems as though she won't be happy knowing you're unhappy.

DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO UNDERESTIMATE YOU. He might think he's bigger and stronger than you and he knows more, but he doesn't. Again, do not let him overpower you. You have to be strong-minded and get through this and live for yourself because there is so much in the world that you can be happy for. (I should know).

Your mother shouldn't take you for granted either. I'm sure she loves you and should remove your stepfather from both of your lives.

Don't runaway from your problems either. The world is a scary place and more dangerous things can happen. Please tell your mother and if she doesn't listen, talk to authorities. She needs to leave him!

If you need to talk with me about anything, email me: spazziekazzie22@aim.com.
Posted by Chronicspaz on 5/18/2009 11:01:00 PM (Report abuse)
yes your mom may love him very much, but if u don't tell her what is happening u will hurt her even more, she will understand when u tell her, please trust me on this, the damage u will do by telling her wont be near as great as if u keep letting your stepfather do these things to u,

i promise i will pray for u, i know u have the courage inside u to tell your mom
good luck :)
Posted by KTNY65 on 5/18/2009 10:04:00 PM (Report abuse)

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