My wife is a cheating bitch!!!

Recently I've found out that my wife had an affair.I became suspicious and did some personal investigating and found out the truth.After I confronted her about it she finally fessed up.After she confessed she aske me to please not tell this idiots wife because my stepdaughter and their daughter are really good friends.As we all know the kids pay the price in this situation.My problem is that I'm no particular fan of my stepdaughter and I really don't trust my wife.On top of that I would probably enjoy watching his wife mop the floor with my wife ( his wife has a bit of a temper ).I can honestly say that the only reason I'm still here is so my son doesn't have to come from a broken home.Once he is grown and on his own I'm otta here.So, should I let the cat out of the bag or not?
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patrick
Yes absolutely, she should pay for it from all parties she hurt as well as that guy she was with should pay by is wife also. He took from you so you need to let his life crumble in front of him too.
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Thumpersavage5
don't tell!

you sould like (no offence), an evil stepdad!!! (still no offence, I can't help but be mean), if I had you as a stepdad, I would be soooooooo angry! it is plain HARD for girls to find new friends. not that YOU'LD care!!!! ugh!
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GlitterPirate
well have been thru it! this crap about whars good for ths children is just that crap. approach this as 2 adult calm people an discuss it . its worse for the kids when you both get resentfull an want to get even etc. the kids will make it ok if you behave like adults. when i told my wife i did it in front of my kids there was some tears an shock from her which i expected. but my daughter an son looked there mom an said whats wrong with daddy having a girl friend? i believe they were 8 an 10 at the time. there was no get your dam stuff an get out talk from either of us. it took a couple months an i decided it was best i should leave as my desire to have sex a lot more than she was at this stage in are marriage. i love it an was my main reason to marry as steady sex. not love an happy ever after stuff an the feeling was mutual at the time. so do the right thing talk it out you may just hit on something that you both like. i no several couples that share their joy with others an are happy. good luck
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jay69
I agree to Atom, I'm friends with children of divorcees and they're practically fine. It'll be hard but no one's life is without hardships.
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Demo9
I think your number one priority should be your son.
Needless to say this seems to have two angles of approach.
He can grow up in a "pretend" family, never knowing what this woman has done untill he is old enough, and maybe he will resent you for that, or he can grow up in a "broken home" as you put it, and lack his role models in life.

My personal opinion, and I'l be as honest as I can with you, but I think it's best to let the cat out of the bag. Maybe I'm just a down to earth guy, and I've never been in this situation before, but I always think that it's best to grow up without people in your life than to have them in your life for all the wrong reasons.

Though I think you should act from your heart and as I said, your son should come first in every instance, but I have seem parents divorce while their child is at an early age, and the child has developed perfectly normally.

Take care
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Atom
how old is ur son? is ur wife his step mum or real mum? u ned to talk to ur wife. is she sorry? maybe u cud work this out over time for your sons sake.
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