NO LOVE JUST COMFORT
Posted by laporte281 on 8/3/2008 1:57:00 AM
i have been a relationship off and on for almost 10 yrs. i am afraid that i will never find real, true, storybook love so i continue to get back with this man that i am comfortable with. i used to love him but now its more like i am affraid to be alone so i put up with him. MY SECRET IS THAT I DON'T LOVE THIS MAN I AM JUST COMFORTABLE WITH HIM, HE KNOWS THE REAL ME! i come from a broken-low-inome family and love was scarce in my household. currently, i dont make much money but i love what i do. i often wonder if i can be loved, i know that i am loved by God, but i wonder if there is a person who will love me for me, see past my faults also love and accept my children. does real love still exist and if so why hasn't it found me?
-laporte281
Tags: real, love, looking, for, comfort
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-laporte281
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its rare to find storybook love like you want.. why dont you give another guy a chance, i know you probably dont want to because you are not "comfortable" with anyone else...but you had to start somewhere with the first guy 10 years ago!
try someone new, and go looking for the one!
dont hide behind the one you are comfortable with! you dont HAVE to always be with someone. being single helps you find out who you are and who you want.
try someone new, and go looking for the one!
dont hide behind the one you are comfortable with! you dont HAVE to always be with someone. being single helps you find out who you are and who you want.
Posted by Kk7 on 8/6/2008 3:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
Love means taking risks, making mistakes, finding it, and yes, at times, being alone. But the funny thing about love is that you first have to be comfortable with yourself and love yourself before you can love anyone else.
You can't just sit there and expect love to just come to you, you have to seek it and go after it. And of course you can be loved. Love means taking another person's faults and learn to love them. After all, faults are what make a person. Otherwise, they'd be boring people, and no one likes boring people.
Learn to live! (:
You can't just sit there and expect love to just come to you, you have to seek it and go after it. And of course you can be loved. Love means taking another person's faults and learn to love them. After all, faults are what make a person. Otherwise, they'd be boring people, and no one likes boring people.
Learn to live! (:
Posted by Penguin on 8/3/2008 4:01:00 PM (Report abuse)
Real love does still exist. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places, or it's just not your time yet. Everybody finds love at different times in their lives. So you don't love this man but feel comfortable with him..Why don't you stay as just friends? He can still be there but as a friend.
Posted by Bliss on 8/3/2008 9:58:00 AM (Report abuse)