Call the police on this fucker, for the ultimate well being of you, your half-sister, and your mother
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/13/2008 4:06:00 PM (Report abuse)
I am so sorry that this had to happen to you. I had the same thing happen to me. I told my mom and everything, but she didn't even leave him. I had to live with that bastard for five more years! They finally split up because he was cheating on her. I resent her every day of my life. I guess she was more important than me and my sister. And I will fucking hate her until the day I die.
Tell somebody. There are police for a reason, and they love to take down bastards like him. Don't worry about them not believing you, they will always listen to the victim.
Don't do what I did, don't wait take action! I am so fucked up now, and it's all his fault. Sometimes I attack my boyfriend in the middle of the night if he moves his body to hold mine, because I think it's HIM.
Please, do something before it's too late.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/13/2008 6:29:00 AM (Report abuse)
You have to tell the police don't do what I did it will haunt you the rest of your life.Don't you have any family you can trust if not run as far as you can.A catholic church might protect you.Talk to A priest anything is better than waiting for him to do it again.Personally I hope the next time you cut him.
There's a time when you have to stand for yourself regardless of the consequences for your mother. She needs help too, but by doing nothing she is already making a choice. They are the adults, and the least they should protect kids right?
You have no fault.
Fight for your freedom and tell this to someone you trust. New friends, an adult you trust or go to the police. I don't know where are you from, but search for a phone number or contact for victims. A special line or something and ask them what to do.
You're are not alone. But you can only be helped if you talk to someone. Don't you have more family, uncles or something?
Just don't give up and wait, because the pain you feel will hurt even more as time goes by.
Good luck girl, wish you the best:)*
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/2/2008 6:43:00 PM (Report abuse)
"and he always tells me to go on the pill so I dont get pregnuat..but he uses..protection"
um i thought you said you do everything but sex:S this is made up:)
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/1/2008 6:07:00 AM (Report abuse)
cops honey cops... ur parents cant do shit if you call without telling them and if u play the "im scared he is gonna come after me" card they will protect u and put him away
you need to get yourself out of that situation! think of the aweful things he is doing to you, and if your own MOTHER doesnt even believe you, then who cares the consiquences of what happens to her if you tell. that is horrible..
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/29/2008 1:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
you need to get yourself out of that situation! think of the aweful things he is doing to you, and if your own MOTHER doesnt even believe you, then who cares the consiquences of what happens to her if you tell. that is horrible..
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/29/2008 1:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
put arsenic in his drink
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/28/2008 4:51:00 PM (Report abuse)
I really wish I was with you right now. What he is doing to you IS NOT RIGHT by any means. First, use protection and go on the pill. You don't want an unplanned pregancy. Also, PLEASE contact an official. Try to remember dates so that they can have proof. What he is doing is breaking the law and it will physically, emotionally and physocologically destroy you. Your mom should believe you. She might not want to, but if you tell her the thought will inevitably be in her head. I wish you the best of luck. PLEASE DON"T HURT YOURSELF. Don't cut or try to commit suicide. He isn't worth it, and I believe that you have so much to offer this world. it would sadden me if someone like you wasn't here. Please get help.
I believe that you will do something great with you life, and I wish you the best of luck. Keep Smiling =]
i am not a nurse...and we don't know each other but i wish we did. please, please find help. you do not deserve that situation you are in and you need out. quickly. and please don not take kendra's advice. you should not have to put up with that for a few more years. do what you can to get help. i am in ohio and i wish you were....for some reason i feel so compelled to help you. please reach out to someone...the police, a school counselor. hopefully someone will help take you out of that situation soon.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/28/2008 10:39:00 AM (Report abuse)
thank you tracy.
your not a nurse are you? you sound liek someone i know.. actully..
None of this is your fault. Please call the police immediately.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/27/2008 8:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
dear wallflower you no who this is :) i love you and i think you have the strenght to get away cause i know you please move back cause you do not deserve any of this at all....
and hopefully ill see you soon (either here or down there) we all love you <3
Im sixteen. I was fifteen though.. at the time. I think im going to move back.. My mom won't have a stable job.. her boss is my step dads best friend.. She loves him i dont want to hurt her.. and social services might take Ali away..
But I've thought about it.. Since it really is to much to bare.
I just want to leave and never look back.. Thank you for your note.. it helps. thank you.
Bear with it for a few more years???? Kendra - have u lost your mind? wtf...find a way out of that situation...find someone to talk to...a counselor, a neighbor, or someone that can help. I wish i knew where u were, I would let u live with me in a second. I hope he does get what is coming to him but you need to find a way out of that sitation...and quick. I am sure there is a hotline that you could call for help..just look it up online. I don't even know you and would love to help you. - Tracy
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/27/2008 12:03:00 PM (Report abuse)
POLICE. SOCIAL SERVICES.
or let me tell you what to do if the above doesn't seem to be a way out. How old are you? You bear with it for a few more years, get financially independent, move out. Then come back and haul his motherfucking ass to JAIL for a fuck load of a long time. Bid your time honey, revenge is a dish best served cold.
You need to work towards extracting yourself out of the situation. Minimise your contact with him till you move out.
The bastard's gonna get what's coming to him. Just not yet, just not yet, but soon, dear, very soon.
-Kendra
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/26/2008 9:32:00 PM (Report abuse)