Older man
Posted by flo on 10/27/2008 5:29:00 PM
I am seeing a man who is 17 years older than me, he is also married. I like him but also feel like he has led me into this, he knows I have no friends and now I depend on him for emotional support and I am wondering now did he see me as a vulnerable person and thats why he persued me or does he actually like me, he makes me feel good and bad but I don't know what I will do if I don't have him to think about or talk to I will just go back to being lonely and feeling ugly and useless. I know what is happening is so wrong it makes me a horrible person, I don't want to be that person but it is too late.
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You need counseling for co-dependency. He sounds like a malignant narcissist.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/31/2008 9:24:00 PM (Report abuse)
We work at the same company, I gave him my number to send those joke txts around but then he started asking about me and saying he wanted to get to know me, I met him for a drink and he tried to kiss me, I freaked out and said I had to go, he carried on texting and I think I started to like him and I enjoyed the attention he gave me.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/28/2008 5:39:00 AM (Report abuse)
How did you guys get together? I have a thing for older men but i dont know how to approch them.
and also if you dont think its a healthy relationship then get out of it. If your only staying with him because you feal ugly and useless then thoes arnt the reasons to stay with some one. It could get really bad later and may even become abusive. Please be careful. You dont need a man to make you feal better. there are so many other things out there to help you. I had a lot of problems with suicide and i turned to the lord and it helped me a lot. if you feal so bad dont turn to a boyfriend, try a profesional sycoligist, and work on your self a steem and becoming the best person you can be and be happy.
I hope every thing works out for you :)
and also if you dont think its a healthy relationship then get out of it. If your only staying with him because you feal ugly and useless then thoes arnt the reasons to stay with some one. It could get really bad later and may even become abusive. Please be careful. You dont need a man to make you feal better. there are so many other things out there to help you. I had a lot of problems with suicide and i turned to the lord and it helped me a lot. if you feal so bad dont turn to a boyfriend, try a profesional sycoligist, and work on your self a steem and becoming the best person you can be and be happy.
I hope every thing works out for you :)
Posted by secretname on 10/27/2008 7:06:00 PM (Report abuse)