Please Solve My Problem
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/20/2007 1:25:00 PM
I am an 18 yr male. I like a girl from my school days. She was my class mate. I was having a feeling for her from last 2yrs.
But now i met another girl in my relations who is smart and is just like me. And she wants to contact me. And I feel the same about her too. But I am not understanding which is my love and how to decide.
Is it a mere attraction or love.
My mind says relative is good but heart is on the classmate.
Please tell me how to test who is my love.
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But now i met another girl in my relations who is smart and is just like me. And she wants to contact me. And I feel the same about her too. But I am not understanding which is my love and how to decide.
Is it a mere attraction or love.
My mind says relative is good but heart is on the classmate.
Please tell me how to test who is my love.
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Well, I guess you should try with your friend first, and see what happens afterwards. Don't spend the chance life is giving you, boy! See: if you let the girl who likes you go, you might end up having nothing, cause there is no guarantee that the classmate is going to feel the same way about you... It's been 2 years loving her and having no progress, so... Unless you try any bold approach and tell her how you feel about her to be sure if you'll get the love back. However, I think you should try with the other girl, she might be the right one for you. Heart can be deceiving most of the times... Listen to your mind this time...
And don't you forget one thing: when you're with someone, you look more attractive. Who knows the other girl, I mean, the classmate, seeing you with another, doesn't look at you differently? Think about that... I don't mean you should use the relative to get what you want... you could just get the chance to see if the relative could be something more and if the classmate is worth it.
I hope I have helped you somehow. Good luck, boy!
And don't you forget one thing: when you're with someone, you look more attractive. Who knows the other girl, I mean, the classmate, seeing you with another, doesn't look at you differently? Think about that... I don't mean you should use the relative to get what you want... you could just get the chance to see if the relative could be something more and if the classmate is worth it.
I hope I have helped you somehow. Good luck, boy!
Posted by Sol on 11/26/2007 9:11:00 PM (Report abuse)
It look like my boyfriend dont like me?
Posted by Mai on 11/24/2007 2:18:00 PM (Report abuse)