Pornstars and princesses
Posted by woman on 5/25/2008 2:26:00 AM
Last year two guys recored a video of me giving one of them head.
I didn't know it was happening. to be honest, i didnt know what was happening.
the video is still out there. unless its been deleted to make space for more 'incidents'.
is it rape if your too drunk to say no?
is it your fault for putting your self in that situation?
when are we victims? when are we just stupid girls?
I'm mad at my self, mad at society.
they were right... we're either pornstars or princesses these days, pick a side.
Tags: drunk, video, tape, pornstar
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I didn't know it was happening. to be honest, i didnt know what was happening.
the video is still out there. unless its been deleted to make space for more 'incidents'.
is it rape if your too drunk to say no?
is it your fault for putting your self in that situation?
when are we victims? when are we just stupid girls?
I'm mad at my self, mad at society.
they were right... we're either pornstars or princesses these days, pick a side.
Tags: drunk, video, tape, pornstar
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Look the bottom line is that first, as a female, you have to be more carefull about who you drink with and let get close to you. It's not right and not fair but we live in a society where women and girls have to be on guard all the time no matter what.
Second, that being said, no this was not your fault, you made the mistake of trusting the wrong people, something many do everyday. The blame lies with those guys, no matter how drunk you were they should not have taken advantage of you like that. I don't know if this would hold up in a court of law, but morally the blame is theirs.
But take this as a lesson learned in the worst way, there are a lot of horrible people in the world, male and female, and as a female you are ever more at risk, so be carefull and try to surround yourself with good people (good men especially, even if theres only a handfull in the world)
Second, that being said, no this was not your fault, you made the mistake of trusting the wrong people, something many do everyday. The blame lies with those guys, no matter how drunk you were they should not have taken advantage of you like that. I don't know if this would hold up in a court of law, but morally the blame is theirs.
But take this as a lesson learned in the worst way, there are a lot of horrible people in the world, male and female, and as a female you are ever more at risk, so be carefull and try to surround yourself with good people (good men especially, even if theres only a handfull in the world)
Posted by Lalarelle on 8/17/2008 2:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
The way you said it is so true
what are women these day?
what are women these day?
Posted by Chick on 8/7/2008 3:45:00 AM (Report abuse)
Hard to say "no" with your mouth full. You sobered up and now feel stupid - its not rape its being caught doing something you no u shouldnt have done but sounded fun at the time. Grow up and take it for what it is. What were you saying on the tape...yes or no?
Posted by Whatever on 8/4/2008 7:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
How long ago was it? Cos if it was more than four years it's past the statue of limitations and you can't press charges
Posted by Jake on 8/3/2008 6:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
Don't listen to what people say. A lot of people want to call girls hoes because they do something sexual but praise men because they do it. I think that its fucked up that guys take advantage of women the way they do. Also for the future try not put yourself into that sort of situation because most guys will take advantage of a girl.
Also just in case I'm a guy writing this because I'm disgusted with the way guys treat women.
Also just in case I'm a guy writing this because I'm disgusted with the way guys treat women.
Posted by JB on 8/2/2008 5:41:00 PM (Report abuse)
the video tape is illegal if you didn't know about it. I would press charges before someone else gets worse from them. Not your fault.
Posted by Baat33 on 5/27/2008 9:52:00 AM (Report abuse)
whatever you are a stupid drunk ho to be honest and it is y our fault that you got yourself in that slutty position in the first place. you need to watch yourself and take responsibility for your actions. you were just being a whore. i mean they should not have done that to you but you deserve it for being dumb. :)
Posted by Hahaha on 5/26/2008 11:02:00 AM (Report abuse)
You were taken advantage of. You got too drunk and the situation got out of hand. I was in a VERY similar situation. I have no idea what happened that night but evidence the next day told me what probably happened. I learned from the situation and have forgiven myself. Forgive yourself sweetie :) We all go through things like this. Its life. Its how we learn. Learn from this :) Good luck!
Posted by KC on 5/25/2008 10:12:00 PM (Report abuse)
yes, your responsible for no ones actions but your own. I have done many stupid things in my life, but I always accepted responsibility for them. It appears that you have done the same.
Pls, never trust two guys with a video camera.
Just my 2ยข worth
Pls, never trust two guys with a video camera.
Just my 2ยข worth
Posted by River Rat on 5/25/2008 6:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
Yes. Technically if under the influence, & say... he wasn't.. it is considered rape. If you had no clue of your surroundings & truly couldn't stop, it is rape. However, to your question about "stupid girls"... Hind-sight is 20/20, & we all do things that we don't realize would have happened. You may have went out for a few drinks with some pretty chill guys & ended up in a horribly situation that NO ONE should ever be in. Best thing to do would be to make peace with it.
Posted by TOOniftyFORwords on 5/25/2008 5:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
Link please?
Posted by Uhm on 5/25/2008 5:22:00 AM (Report abuse)