Pregnant by married man, please don't judge me

I have been with this guy since 2005, it started out as a fling becuz im not the commited type, im focus on my career and i am a mother also, but as time went on he wantd something more while on the other hand i was content what we had, now let me say this when we first got 2gether he was not married, but as things progressed our fling transformed into a relationship and alot has happen throughout our relationship,(she)hiswife-has called me,we have had confrontations and this kinda relationship was a 1st for me,i love him but im not willing to do this to myself anymore and its apparent she loves him too, but now im pregnant and he wants me to have the baby saying he will be there every step of the way, i don't doubt that he want take care of his responsibility,but i don't want this KIND OF RELATIONSHIP,anymore! im tired and i have told him this but he won't listen and he tries to keep saying its all in my mind but i have these mixed feelings of aborting the baby because i don't want to deal with him and hoping if i do that he will leave me alone an i know thats selfish and not right, but i don't know what to do...its hard for me.
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your relationship sounds real familiar to mine, except we were together for 3 years and I also get calls from his wife time to time. I believe I'm pregnant but I am not sure so for now its a waiting game. I'm waiting a few more weeks for my period if I don't get one I will probley be getting pregnancy test done. The thing is he has been trying to get me pregnant because I had a tubaligation 13 years ago I never thought it would happen but now I am having a little scare. I love him and all but I did tell him that because of what he has done to his wife I could never trust him if we were together.
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