Question

Muscular guys are attractive, but it depends.Some guys look wayyyy too muscular, it just looks odd and creepy. But above it all, personality is way more attractive. Dont pay too much attention to the girls, its just that we girls have this image of our ideal, dream guys to be muscular and all that crap, but in the end, its not what counts

I don't ..
it kind of scares me ..

reminds me of The Hulk , D;

you know, he gave me nightmares
when i was little, i dont think i would
like something that use to give me
nightmares. You know ?

I really dont care if they know who I am or not haha

I mainly post anon so people really don't know who I am when I comment on there story

sometimes I jump into a conversation and say something snarky
then slink out

It's fun to lurk around.

I've been gone for a minute, when I got home I didnt have internet access haha.

I've kind of become a lurker now, too haha

Lol I've seen you around. I more or less lurk in the shadows lol

I completely understand kiddo.

This is an ok place to do it.

I come and I rant about work. haha

:) I'm ok I just needed to vent.

I forgot how early it still is over there. haha.

Until you get ahold of him, don't stress the small stuff kiddo.
smile.
:)

Lol yea he's probably still sleeping.
He don't get up til noon

did you leave that bitch a message?
lol

Yea I just called my cousin there was no answer

Yeah. People are ridiculously shallow, but that's society.

True. I just can't believe how shallow people are.
Where I'm from its not like this.

bitches be crazy.


haha.
Sometimes it IS the area you live in.

I lived in VA and it was preppy-blonde as the desired look to go after.
Then I split and all was dandy

Its the same way where ever I go. I'm always the friend. The only reason girls like me more than a friend is because they think I got money. When they find out I'm broke they split

Maybe go outside of the normal clique of people you hang out with

Yea it just pisses me off. I mean I like to make friends but I just need something more right now.

lol. that's good.

I actually know someone who does that. I laugh at him everytime.

I would def take that trip down south haha. You seem to have somehow gotten into the "he's a good friend how sweet" place.

Every time I say I like a girl she giggles and says im sorry your just a friend.
Lol id never be that nice

Some girls are just like that. Maybe you're not being forward enough. Girls don't look for subtle hints, if you're interested in someone you have to make it known

and there is no such thing as too nice unless youre the kind of person that will hold their stuff as they go off to get someone's phone number

The girls are between 21 and 25 years old.
I'm starting to think maybe I'm to nice.

How old are these girls, first off? Because they sound like retards.

The nice guy is someone you can always turn to to hold your hand and help you through the tough stuff. The bodguy is nice to lust after but is probably a giant meatball who couldnt comprehend complicated things like lifeproblems.

But it sounds like it could possibly be the friend zone, because its obviously a comfort level they've reached with you and not him

Another thing is. They flock to him.
But when the girls are depressed and have problems they come to me.
They say how sweet I am and I'm such a nice guy.
Well if I am sweet and a nice guy. What's the problem.
Why do they flock to him?

:)
gnarly

Yea im gonna look into going back down south.

Friends always have dirt on each other. Not using it to trash them means you're a GOOD friend.

Just let it all roll off your shoulders. Get out and about, check out new places.

Yea your right.
I do have a bunch of dirt on him tho.
I could ruin him in about 5 minutes.
But I'm not like that

that may get him more points...

"OH WOW, you've changed SO much. That must have taken so much work! You look SO good now!"

No ill just show pictures of him when he was a fatty

problem solved.

next time youre out with your friend... just set him up to say something completely douchebaggish.

Yea I got a cousin in Alabama. I'll give him a call.

I'm sure you have family or something you could visit?

If youre old enough just take a car and jet.

=]

Now there's an idea to kick around.

southern accents work just as well. Most people get either the image of a wild-child or of the sweet plaid-wearing gentleman when it comes to southern kids.

Go back down south!

See I'm really a southern boy.
I was born and raised in Mississippi.
So I have a thick southern accent

I wasnt too big of a fan of Jersey, either. And all I did was drive through there.

If you got a Jersey accent, take a trip down to Va-Beach. Kids there love accents haha.

Yea maybe ill take a trip to New York.
New Jersey sucks anyway. I'm lookin for an excuse to leave.

You know, as soon as I left my city and went to new places I started to get a lot more attention haha.

ROAD TRIP.

and Maple is right. They sound like a bunch of tricks.

True thanks everyone.

I dont know what kind of guys you're looking at.
there is the healthy muscly which is just more of a toned appearanced that is also well proportioned
most guys I see with muscles have it overdone.
by alot.

I wish I could post a picture to show everyone.

I like guys with decently toned biceps (they just look yummy). I give a damn about whether or not they have abs, just as long as they dont have a ginormous beer belly. If I can out-run them, then its a no go.
You can take care of yourself and NOT look like a Calvin Klein model.

Then be happy that you helped a friend out.

Either way, I don't think most girls who go "Oh, look! A muscly person! Let's feel his abs and flirt with him" are actually looking for a serious relationship. It may end up as one, but they aren't really aiming for it.

Yea I'm gonna go to a completely different city.
I think its funny because if it wasn't for me he'd still be a fatty.

Hey, most of them can't help it.

Muscly guys look healthy, and healthy is attractive.

it could be.
Some girls can be ridiculously shallow. That's normally because they're really immature.
They have this image of what is the 'acceptable person to look for'.

Maybe you should go to new places.

lol. muscleheads are ridiculous. tell him he can spot himself.

Lol maybe ill just drop the weights next time I'm spotting him.

I've tried that shit. Maybe the girls around here are too shallow

It is mean, but also very funny.

Its also not just your body,
but the way you dress
and the way you hold yourself...

confidence is key

I work out just as much as him.
I just don't have the definition.
I'm actually the one that made him start going to the gym.
He was always complaining about being over weight.
The fact is I'm way stronger than he is.
He can't keep up with me lifting weights

Haha that's mean.
I gonna try to go out by myself and see what happens.

If you feel bad about it, do something about it.

Either sabotage him (Chocolate cake, anyone?), or work out. It's your call.

tell them he has HIV.

I don't know I just notice every time they flock to him.
I feel like a bad friend because I get jealous.

It really can. I'm in the military and half of the guys around here look funny
sometimes their heads are too small
I make fun of them

I dont. Being that muscular can look weird...