Rape isn't funny
Posted by pinkyperoxide on 8/9/2008 6:43:00 AM
For a few months now me and my sister have both been raped by our father, I know its pathetic to post these things on a website, but I just need to let it out.
I feel disgusting and dirty, and that the things that he is doing is my fault.
The scary thing is my thirteen year old sister actually said she likes it, and I'm frightened for my safety when I tell him no.
He once tried to seduce my friend, but I just told her she was kidding, and then when she left, he dressed me up like her, and said to say to him that I was her.
Please give me advice I don't know what to do..
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I feel disgusting and dirty, and that the things that he is doing is my fault.
The scary thing is my thirteen year old sister actually said she likes it, and I'm frightened for my safety when I tell him no.
He once tried to seduce my friend, but I just told her she was kidding, and then when she left, he dressed me up like her, and said to say to him that I was her.
Please give me advice I don't know what to do..
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kill him or hurt it badly
Posted by crazyhorse on 11/18/2008 1:40:00 PM (Report abuse)
ok you really need to get help and i know thats obvious and i know that its also hard for you, i think that you are really brave to even post it here, but it proves how strong you can be, you've already taken a step in the right direction to getting help. dont give up, u dont deserve any of this. u said that you feel discusting and dirty because of what he's doing to you, well darling the only dirty and discusting person here is your father. you also have to look out for your sister here, u said she enjoys it, later she will truly thank you for helping her. if you and your sister stick together you can get through this, you need evidence and then get in contact with the police, i know its hard for you because he's ur father but it doesnt change that what he is doing is wrong and can have a serious effect on the rest of you and your sisters lives. i hope everything works out.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/3/2008 2:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
dude its been done to me multiple times from two differnt guys, my grandfather and my sisters husband when i was young. so i highly recomend u getting someone to help u asap otherwise u will be just letting u and ur sister get damaged for the rest of ur life..
and don't worrie about making people mad. when it comes to ur safety and ur sisters saftey that should come first not what other people think... i have been there and i feel much better that it is long gone and i do not regret turning them in. - good luck-
and don't worrie about making people mad. when it comes to ur safety and ur sisters saftey that should come first not what other people think... i have been there and i feel much better that it is long gone and i do not regret turning them in. - good luck-
Posted by ripperjoey on 8/21/2008 3:20:00 AM (Report abuse)
i agree with all of them...you have to get evidence and turn him in.
I know you still love him, and you dont want to break your family apart...but you've Got to listen...even though you love him because he's your father, he is a sick pervert that needs help. and you need to get him that help. if you let him keep getting away with that shit, he will move on to your friends and others.
he wont agree to just stopping. no man can do that when they think they can do whatever they want!!
I know you still love him, and you dont want to break your family apart...but you've Got to listen...even though you love him because he's your father, he is a sick pervert that needs help. and you need to get him that help. if you let him keep getting away with that shit, he will move on to your friends and others.
he wont agree to just stopping. no man can do that when they think they can do whatever they want!!
Posted by Kk7 on 8/11/2008 12:01:00 PM (Report abuse)
Thanks guys
i think im gonna try talking to my mum about it..
The worst part is even though i hate my dad for doing this..theres still like love there because he's my father
i just feel so confused atm cos im not used to me and my sister being so divided..
the best outcome would be if he just agreed to stop rather than getting everyone involved
i dont want everyone to hate me.
thanks babyhedred and _Think It Through First_ ..
you dont know what its like knowing that there are people out there reading what im saying and actually caring..
i think im gonna try talking to my mum about it..
The worst part is even though i hate my dad for doing this..theres still like love there because he's my father
i just feel so confused atm cos im not used to me and my sister being so divided..
the best outcome would be if he just agreed to stop rather than getting everyone involved
i dont want everyone to hate me.
thanks babyhedred and _Think It Through First_ ..
you dont know what its like knowing that there are people out there reading what im saying and actually caring..
Posted by Secret poster on 8/10/2008 12:12:00 AM (Report abuse)
im sorri but ure father must av been a sik man
Posted by Glitz on 8/9/2008 4:51:00 PM (Report abuse)
You definitely need to go to the police for this. If this is real, then I hope you make the right decision and save yourself and your sister.
Posted by Jane Doe on 8/9/2008 4:09:00 PM (Report abuse)
report it
to a police man
a school counselor
department of child services
a nurse
a preist
a parent of a friend
some adult that you know will take action
you simply CAN NOT let this go on any further
what he's doing is very sick and wrong
to a police man
a school counselor
department of child services
a nurse
a preist
a parent of a friend
some adult that you know will take action
you simply CAN NOT let this go on any further
what he's doing is very sick and wrong
Posted by Lcpa543 on 8/9/2008 4:03:00 PM (Report abuse)
You have options, and do forgive my bluntness when discussing them. First one is call the police. Do so after he has just finished his dirty deed, and once the police arrive - demand a rape kit be performed and get him arrested. Having his DNA inside of you will for sure seal a case against him, or if you want to really paste his ass to the wall - begin collecting evidence of this and prove it has been an ongoing situation and have him tried for multiple instances. I stress the need for hard evidence because it will not just strength the chances of having him convicted, but also because your sister is a wild card.
I'm not a doc. but she is definitely been damaged by this situation. She has convinced herself that this what she wants. She may testify to your fathers defense, discrediting your claim and providing the reasonable doubt that a good attorney can use to get your father acquitted and charges dropped. They could paint it as "the forgotten daughter, feeling unloved in comparison to her younger sister, creates these elaborate lies about her father's abuse. To gain the attention she so desperatly craves, that of the victim and to be the hero that withstood such horrible abuse."
But the thing is, you are dealing with that shit and you are that strong. But our legal system is fucked up and the wicked go free. Perverts like that are not look at so kindly within prison, inmates will make his life hell. Put him away knowing he is getting what he deserved as he will be the one tormented each night. Its called closure, get some.
I wouldn't try to argue if you wanted to kill him either, I have not been where you have been. But I just that is too quick, a punishment not befitting the crime. And don't give in, tie him up, and torture him either. While it would be fun, unless you know how to get away with it, not recommendable. You can't argue temporary insanity when you slowly cut him up for two weeks, and the "eye for an eye" philosophy doesn't fly. Turn him in, and his new criminal housemates take care of his suffering and you don't go to jail with him.
I'm not a doc. but she is definitely been damaged by this situation. She has convinced herself that this what she wants. She may testify to your fathers defense, discrediting your claim and providing the reasonable doubt that a good attorney can use to get your father acquitted and charges dropped. They could paint it as "the forgotten daughter, feeling unloved in comparison to her younger sister, creates these elaborate lies about her father's abuse. To gain the attention she so desperatly craves, that of the victim and to be the hero that withstood such horrible abuse."
But the thing is, you are dealing with that shit and you are that strong. But our legal system is fucked up and the wicked go free. Perverts like that are not look at so kindly within prison, inmates will make his life hell. Put him away knowing he is getting what he deserved as he will be the one tormented each night. Its called closure, get some.
I wouldn't try to argue if you wanted to kill him either, I have not been where you have been. But I just that is too quick, a punishment not befitting the crime. And don't give in, tie him up, and torture him either. While it would be fun, unless you know how to get away with it, not recommendable. You can't argue temporary insanity when you slowly cut him up for two weeks, and the "eye for an eye" philosophy doesn't fly. Turn him in, and his new criminal housemates take care of his suffering and you don't go to jail with him.
Posted by _Think It Through First_ on 8/9/2008 3:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
You need to tell a counselor at school immediately, or go to the police. For your sake as well as your sisters. Your father is a pediphile, a sick idividual who will only hurt other little girls when he's through ruining your lives. You wrote this so matter of factly that It's almost hard to believe. If this is real, honey, you need to seek counsel as soon as possible. Your self esteem will be so damaged if you wait that it will affect you your whole life. I know....
Posted by Babyhedred on 8/9/2008 11:51:00 AM (Report abuse)