Relationship, Love
Posted by topsecretlove on 9/18/2008 7:09:00 AM
"Just leave him, he treats you like shit"
"You could do so much better..."
"He's obviously not going to change..."
All my friends tell me to leave him,
but they don't understand how much I love him;
They don't know how amazing he can be sometimes.
When you love someone,
you deal with the flaws right?
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"You could do so much better..."
"He's obviously not going to change..."
All my friends tell me to leave him,
but they don't understand how much I love him;
They don't know how amazing he can be sometimes.
When you love someone,
you deal with the flaws right?
Tags: confusion.
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i loved a drug addict...i couldn't handel it, i thought i could help.....i dumped him and he ran away and was gone for 3 weeks. He canged for me, he got help for some charity and group support-but i still think that could have been me..i could have helped-but when i spoke to him he saidit waas me that made him change...so ppl can change.........ppl nw tell me the opposite of what they used 2..they tell me 2 go bk wiv him! but he won't let me.....he says he don't deserve me....
i say stick with him...if you love him...you can change him-after all 1 person could change the world rite??
i say stick with him...if you love him...you can change him-after all 1 person could change the world rite??
Posted by ladeeMD on 10/9/2008 12:23:00 PM (Report abuse)
Girls stay in bad relationships because of low self-esteem, and this might be the issue for you. , but you confuse it with love. Your probably staying with him cause he gives you that security, but if he treats you like shit and even your friends say he isn't going to change then they're probably right. Usually your friends are the ones to know you best, and if they don't think he's treating you bad, then their right. And you said all your friends are saying this? Thats telling you something. YOur friends care about you most if they thought this guy really made you happy, then they would say this but obviously he makes more unhappy than happy. No women derserves that.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/20/2008 5:03:00 PM (Report abuse)
i have a friend whos boyfriend is always flirting with me and lots of other girls, he kisses them, asks them out and my friend is completely aware, i know she loves him but i always think she'd be better off leaving him.
leave him if hes nasty to you.
leave him if hes nasty to you.
Posted by MissingYou on 9/20/2008 2:17:00 PM (Report abuse)
I know that guy! I've dated him before. He doesn't change. Weigh his pros and cons. I bet there isn't much on the pros side is there? There are guys out there that are amazing 24/7, not just sometimes. You deserve better for yourself. I know how love can be though, it is completely blinding. If you open yourself up to finding someone better, you'll forget all about him. That's what it took for me.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/19/2008 7:54:00 AM (Report abuse)
I loved a man like that, too. But after a while, I started to realize that I deserve to be treated better than this. I'm a great girlfriend, and go out of my way to please, and when all you get back is negativity and verbal abuse, don't compromise yourself. It's YOUR life, and if you think that you can take being treated like shit, despite the 'wonderful' things he does in between, then you mut not like yourself very much.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/18/2008 7:02:00 PM (Report abuse)
i've been in the same situation before. if you seem to fight constantly or he puts you down, or basically makes you feel like shit, you need to let go. it took me too long to realise i needed to let go of a guy i thought i loved. the hardest part is always letting go but use your best judgement!
Posted by morganxoxo on 9/18/2008 6:45:00 PM (Report abuse)
Oh gosh, i know this well.
Exactly... it doesn't matter what other people think.
Exactly... it doesn't matter what other people think.
Posted by Jotiii on 9/18/2008 12:13:00 PM (Report abuse)