http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/The right place to post your secrets. i loved a drug addict...i couldn't handel it, i thought i could help.....i dumped him and he ran away and was gone for 3 weeks. He canged for me, he got help for some charity and group support-but i... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307867 09 Oct 2008 12:23:00 +0000 Girls stay in bad relationships because of low self-esteem, and this might be the issue for you. , but you confuse it with love. Your probably staying with him cause he gives you that security, but... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307101 20 Sep 2008 17:03:00 +0000 i have a friend whos boyfriend is always flirting with me and lots of other girls, he kisses them, asks them out and my friend is completely aware, i know she loves him but i always think she'd be... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307093 20 Sep 2008 14:17:00 +0000 I know that guy! I've dated him before. He doesn't change. Weigh his pros and cons. I bet there isn't much on the pros side is there? There are guys out there that are amazing 24/7, not just... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307039 19 Sep 2008 07:54:00 +0000 I loved a man like that, too. But after a while, I started to realize that I deserve to be treated better than this. I'm a great girlfriend, and go out of my way to please, and when all you get back... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307016 18 Sep 2008 19:02:00 +0000 i've been in the same situation before. if you seem to fight constantly or he puts you down, or basically makes you feel like shit, you need to let go. it took me too long to realise i needed to let... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307012 18 Sep 2008 18:45:00 +0000 Oh gosh, i know this well. Exactly... it doesn't matter what other people think. http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/relationship-love/14302552/#c14307010 18 Sep 2008 12:13:00 +0000