Scared of sex

Posted by an anonymous user on 6/26/2008 9:36:00 PM

okay look, im a virgin and i wanna stay a virgin until marriage and im doing gud on that so far. but um my bf asked me today if like i wanted to start having sex and i said no n he said okay it was fine but he asked why and i said that i was scared to lose my virginity and end up like my mom n he said that me n him will get married n stuff.

n well the truth is,i lied to him cuz im not waiting cuz i wanna wait until marriage, im waiting cuz im scared to have sex. my biggest fear is to get an STD,get pregnant, or worse LOSE MY PURITY!!! i wanna have kids n stuff but, see i dont wanna lose my specialness to guys. im happy being a virgin because it gives guys something to go after. if i get fucked n stuff i wont be tight anymore n if i see other guys n stuff then they wont hv the pleasure of me being tight, and i wanna stay tight cuz guys like it tight.

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Well, im ingaged right now and my wedding is on october.

The reason im scared of sex is that it hurts so bad
people say so....please i need good advises.

Angel

Posted by an anonymous user on 9/10/2008 4:11:00 PM (Report abuse)

Seriously, you want guys to go after the impeccable elasticity of your vagina?

Well, whatever floats your boat....

I personally like guys to go after me for my personality and integrity.

Posted by an anonymous user on 8/31/2008 6:07:00 AM (Report abuse)

there is a exsercise u can do to keep u tight , and not to mention u don't just get loose and stay loose after ur first time... people that are loose now are becuase they fail to do those exercises and they let too many hotdogs walk down thier allway.
u can look it up there are some exercises u can do to keep u tight. plus
this is also a good time to test how ur bf is really someone u really want o keep with... like wunder how long he will stick around if u don't let him have sex...
do what u want but they got things to help u with all of that.. if u plan on having sex it won't hurt to look it up..

Posted by ripperjoey on 8/21/2008 3:11:00 AM (Report abuse)

good girl!!!!!!! im proud of you. even if its just cause ur scared i think its the right thing to do. its not like its never going to b there when you get married. just wait it out.
i tell my bfs before they date me that sex is a no go!!!
:)

Posted by R on 8/15/2008 7:51:00 PM (Report abuse)

I held on til i was 18. was dumped a lot cuz i wouldnt fuck. I dated a lot of girls who jsut wanted to fuck and i said no. i was waiting til i was married (i said) i was actually afraid of getting a girl prego and having a child with someone who i didnt like and just wanted to ravage. as far as the purity thing goes. i personally believe that i did everything better when i was a virgin. I've played guitar for 17 yrs and was at my best when i was a virgin, I've gotten sloppy since i gave up my "purity" i'm thinking it was just because i slept with some slut who was this girl i didn't likes best friend. this girl razzed me from 7th grade til out of hs to fuck her and marry her so i slept with her best friend to make her go away. it didnt work, she didnt believe us. so i had sex with some slut i didnt like to get some other girl i didnt like to go away and it wasnt even good sex, she was loose. but she also fucked the whole wrestling team on more than one occasion and all of them in one occasion. she was used and abused, and i used her too, but she wanted to fuck me bad so it was ok for her. anyhow i'm just saying that maybe my purity would have been safe if i'd been married. i dunno. do what you feel is right

Posted by Ugh whatever on 7/22/2008 4:12:00 PM (Report abuse)

nothing your saying makes scence, but by what i got out of that i think you should just fuck him youll like it hell like it what the big problem and common it dosnt hurt and guys dont like you any less

Posted by Chantelle on 6/30/2008 12:42:00 PM (Report abuse)

you have bad grammer
your a freak
just fuck your boyfriend

Posted by Anonomouyssssness on 6/30/2008 10:28:00 AM (Report abuse)

A boy doesnt know what tight is.. using a tampon makes you less tight, stop talkng about this tight shit

Posted by Nothing on 6/28/2008 12:28:00 PM (Report abuse)

You are a crazy little one, you dont get that lose when you start having sex... i have had sex many times and it doesnt feel any different when you have sex with other guys.. just do it, it nots that bad, you have to test drive the car before you drive it.. you could get married and the sex could just suck big time.. and your boyfriend will not stay with you, you are to young to be thinkin gthat he will stick by your side..

Posted by NOTHING on 6/28/2008 12:27:00 PM (Report abuse)

What's the point of being tight if you're never going to give a guy the experience of fucking someone tight?

Fuck, you might as well have sex and lie to other boys that you're a virgin, because if you never have sex with them then they'll never know you're NOT tight.

Besides, you don't stop being tight after one fuck. It takes a while, and it FUCKING hurts if you're especially tight.

Urgh, that is such a filthy word and I just used it like 10 times.

Posted by Logic!! on 6/28/2008 8:24:00 AM (Report abuse)

well i only know what guys like cuz i pay attention when i hear guys around my house and in my schoollll talk bout that shit..even my 17 yr old bro talks bout it so yeah thats how i learn that shit

Posted by GIRL2008 on 6/27/2008 1:08:00 AM (Report abuse)

It seems to me that for a virgin, you know quite a lot about what guys like in the bed. "Tight"?

Posted by Hailie on 6/26/2008 10:11:00 PM (Report abuse)