Secret attraction
Posted by sweetsounds on 10/17/2008 4:42:00 AM
I'm happily married.i love my husband.our sex life is amazing.but i've always wanted a sexual experience with a woman.does that make a lesbian? I think I watched the L Word to much
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I am like that too. I am not married, but my boyfriend and I have great , great sex. I do think about experiencing things with a woman, but just in the physical way. Not a relationship. So , no, that does not make you a lesbian, I think. You're not alone. :)
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/19/2008 4:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
I feel exactly the same way. My husband makes me incredibly happy, and more than satisfies me in the bedroom. I just can't stop thinking about experiencing things with a woman. He's not into sharing either, so it's a lost cause for me, or so it seems.
Posted by justme1985 on 10/18/2008 8:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
i am married and bi......this does not make you a lesbian. my husband knows that i am attracted to women and is fine with it. because we have such a strong relationship he allows some freedoms that most married couples don't have....simply because he knows that is something he can't fulfill. he knew before we were married so i think that made things a little easier. talk to you hubby about it.....start him off slow....give him some time to comprehend it. the next time you see a woman on tv that you think is attractive...just say "she's hot".....just ease him into it if you ever intend on it being anything more than a fleeting thought.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/17/2008 2:41:00 PM (Report abuse)
No I don't think it makes you a Lesbian. I think we all have fantasies. The key is not following through with it. Since you are married.
Posted by asilentbuilder on 10/17/2008 11:02:00 AM (Report abuse)
It doesn't necessarily make you a lesbian. You are just curious, right? Everybody gets curious with one thing or another.
Posted by Bliss on 10/17/2008 6:20:00 AM (Report abuse)