Secretly In Love With Half-Sister

I am a male who is secretly in love with my half-sister in which I met about 4 years ago. When I met her, it wash pure brotherly love as it should be for any sister. But for the last few months or so, I have been experiencing much more deeper feelings toward her. Each and everytime we see and talk to each other, it seems as if we verbally communicate on a much deeper and meaningful level and point that most other people should talk on. I feel that I need her emotionally and physically for me to be complete. I leave her each time taking each and every piece of advice and suggestion that she has given me as so valuable to the point of a whole lot of pressure and burden has been lifted off of me. Accordingly to most people in the world, I understand this is considered as incest. Even though incest considered wrong, I believe love is still love. I believe there are 3 kinds of love, one being the kind that we should have for God, one for our neighbor, and one for our other significant or better half. To me, the type of love that we should have for an significant other is the type that simply takes hold of people and sometimes makes them do things they wouldn't normally do. I believe we all desires to be loved by someone in this way. I don't really understand how one can control or judge who or how a person should turn their love on and off for such a person they feel very strong for. I know the bible talks about incest, but also things such as homosexuality, and etc. So it is something that is always up for debate and discussion. As for incest and the bible, I just don't think it is completely wrong, because if it wasn't for incest, we would not have a lot of the major bible characters, such as Moses, Abraham, Sarah, and others. People who have played a major role in the bible. And for the purpose of everyone else would have not been at all if it had not been for some degree and level of incest.

My questions are, am I wrong for feeling this way? If so, how? What would you do in this situation. Should I continue to hold this secret and never expose it should I expose it? I am very serious and welcome all who want to respond, but I ask and remind you to please not forget the bible also says "judge not lest ye be judged"
Like
1
Report Abuse
BillMan4312
I say, your feelings are yours alone, if the age of us dictates who we should love or not, then at an early age we cannot be held responsible for feeling that we want love. At the age of consent, we hold love in our hearts very different, it feels real who ever that is, lover, wife, sister or half sister, it's real. So time will tell if this type of love can last who ever that will be with.
Like
0
Report Abuse
Nobby07uk
My mother got pregnant from a person I never met, he was no good. My mother was 5 months pregnant and married a person from South America that needed a green card.
This person became my father, he gave me love and I love him very much. He worked hard and gave a great education. I am 36 divorced. Sometime ago a young lady called me up told me she was my half sister and she wanted to meet me, I knew I had a different biological father, so was no big surprise. Initially I believed she wanted money. We agreed to meet at a coffee shop. She was not the bet looking women, but not bad, but had a great smile. We talked for several hours. The family that brought her up adopted her, and gave her a good education a home and love. Her mother passed away and her father is very old and believes I am a nice guy. We get along well I fly have my own aircraft and he was a pilot in Vietnam, so we have plenty of things to talk about
I felt much attacked to her. We talked and met several times after that.
I told her I was in love with her and I wanted to be her lover. She was kind of scared but told me she was also attracted to me.
We arrange to spend a long weekend up the coast near Eureka. I went out for dinner and we ended up making love. I had to be a little persistent but she gave up after lots of kissing and hugging. Was the first time in my life that sex had any feeling then just sex. It was love, I became the happiest man on Earth
Looking at our driver’s license nobody can say that we are related. So we live together in and we are very happy, my daughter thinks she is my girl friend. We do not plan to have kids. But it was worth it. The hell to the fact that she is my half sister.
My mother believes there is something strange and she asked me a few questions. I think she knows about it. That is something that only mothers can notice. She told me that she will take this secret to the grave, and told me to be happy.
She told me I was pregnant this guy comes and offer me 5000 Dollars for me to marry him so he could get his green card. I did not have where to live so I went to live with him. He was nice we fell in love he became my husband and your father and we have been together ever since. I do not regret a second. God sometimes created so strange paths for us and we have to go ahead
Like
0
Report Abuse
cessna170b
I met my half brother 4 years ago. He's 38 and I'm 39 and just told me today he has a sexual attraction to me and I kinda do for him too. We are both christians and don't know what to do because in today's "christian" society it's wrong. I did some research and found out about genetic sexual attraction, which I had never heard of and it opened my eyes to why we have this "strange" attraction. We didn't grow up together, we have the same mother, different fathers, I was adopted by grandparents, he was adopted by a couple that fostered kids. Our birth mother has passed, he never got to meet her and neither one of us knows who are fathers are and there's really not any family that we are really close to so family is not a big issue and I can't get pregnant, my tubes are tied and burned. I have 3 children, the two younger ones live with their father. What I am worried about is it's not right in God's eyes.
Like
0
Report Abuse
lover39
It seems u ask for the opinion of Christianity, i am not christian so i do not know, However generally No body can say what is OK and what is not! Human community is developping with time and things ,ideas change with time, I do not thing you should ask the question ''is it ok?'' because simply there is no manual or guide book to find what is permitted and what is not, this only gives the chance to Religion maniaks, politic liers and financial corupted to control us! to tell us what is wrong and what is not. Me my self love my half sister and i am so happy with her, the country is so conservative and dangerous and yet we manage to date like any other couple ,we might flee the country or not I do not know, One thing I am sure of, I am ready to die or to be hung better than living with an other woman i do not love, So please do only what makes your heart in peace and lets u sleep well . Themedia and the system made it ok for us to see ppl fighting each other in WMD's, lesbians and gay although it is against naure and a threat to the continuity of man kind,No I am not going to loose my real love because others think '' it is not ok''
Like
0
Report Abuse
physicist
Its ok to feel that way. I felt that way for my half brother. We are together now, and very happy. We can't help who we love. Love is love. But we keep our love on the down low
Like
0
Report Abuse
misha69
They were closer to adam and eve. Now we are soo far from perfection. Insest was exceptable like lot and his daughters but now in our day it causes birth defects. In ppls eyes insest is wrong. In God's eyes sex outside of marriage is a major sin. Bur ppl except doing that
Like
0
Report Abuse
guddyguddy
im not in love with my half sister, just more sexually attracted to her than i have ever been with anyone in my life all the sudden. i mean i have always gotten hot ass girls but not one single one has ever made me as turned on as her. maybe its the whole forbidden thing or something, im not sure. but i feel ya man. its something that you have to be very cautious going about.
Like
0
Report Abuse
mikeymike112
i can relate im in love with my brother and i dont know what to do...im so afraid of what would happen if he found out and he hated me for it...i really cant tell you what to do but lend you my support.
Like
1
Report Abuse
confusedandlost
fuck off to west virginia
Like
0
Report Abuse
Love