Sex advice.

Posted by an anonymous user on 8/4/2008 5:58:00 AM

my and my boyfriend
have a blah sex life.

i need sex advice.
guys help me out.
i'll do pretty much anything.

oh im 16.
and we've tried positions and public places are pretty much my "thing"
so i just need general advice.
oral or whatever.

and.
im an A+ student who's working my way to medical school.
and telling me im going to kill myself is stupid.
because im pretty fucking sure i have my priorities straight.
and are you aware of the percentage of people who start their sex life young.
also the fact that these people live longer and their sex life is proved better and longer than those who start intercourse at a later age.
so there.

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hmmm... well communication is key. talk to him about what he likes and wants to try.

also, toys - if you can find a way to purchase some - are fun.

Posted by Taye1402 on 10/11/2008 10:09:00 PM (Report abuse)

u just gotta sit down and ask him what he finds most pleasurable and then you tell him what u like the most, the key to great sex is communication, trust me.... and im with you on this, public places are definetly the best places to have sex, its like the fear of getting caught makes it alot better, oh and im a guy by the way

Posted by confusedkid15 on 8/25/2008 10:27:00 PM (Report abuse)

I agree with the in public, the danger and drama element makes it some much more exciting and pleasurable. Are you to young to think about toys? I don't know... or the special lubes you get. Also swinging parties and maybe another couple; but I think you are probably too young for that but hey in a couple of years ;)

Posted by XXXalexisXXX on 8/20/2008 10:46:00 AM (Report abuse)

i kno u probably dont wanna hear this, but at 16 grl u shud b challenging ure energy in more rewarding activities such as studies, sports or helping othrs. do u kno y ure doing this?? wat r u seeking??? take the time to find out who u r, wat u want, n where ure headed b4 thinking about trying to spice up ur sex life. at this rate, by the time ure 23 u wudv bn there n done it all n thn wat???? ure gonna try smthing more xtreme to get a lil pleasure n then wat??? kil urself bcoz its not wrth it??? u mite not agree now but if u shud hav a dautr smday, ure not gonna want hr doing these things at that age.

Posted by Pro philactic on 8/13/2008 12:19:00 PM (Report abuse)

medically you are not suppose to be receiving that kind of pleasure.... that's probably why it's blah.

so yea.
it'll get better in time.
just not now.

Posted by Yes. on 8/9/2008 1:39:00 AM (Report abuse)

you are way too young to have sex.,you are barely old enough to drive yourself to the hospital when you get pregnant.....are you really ready to hold yourself accountable for you actions at this age?..and if it's not good, then there is no pooint

Posted by Hahaha on 8/5/2008 9:38:00 PM (Report abuse)

Honesty. Sit him down and talk. Ask him how he wants head to go on: sucking and stroking combo, are the balls a must? how does he feel about a finger in the ass?

Talk about what you want to. Do you get bored when he "makes love" when you really just wanna get some sense pounded into you, can he not find the clit, how do you feel about a finger in the ass? Then try to discuss things you both would enjoy...

Me and my gf regularly discuss our sex life in almost graphic detail. I'm not weirded out in the least, nor is she and it kicks ass. She now knows if she wants to slap me in the face and call me a peice of shit, that's fine. She also knows that doing so will probably result in something closer to rape than consentual sex -- but she cums hard on that stuff. Its all about discussing whats a must and whats bust. Try mirrors (guys totally like seeing their girl go down on them, we're visual creatures. Plus, the gf likes watching herself when she grinds the shit outta me!) or try some porn. Go to the shop and find some dirty shit that will get both of you feelin good and inventive.

p.s. sex in public is only fun when the sex is fun. Without a foundation of solid-"We fuck like champs" knowledge backing the sex, then no amount of danger will make sex in public fun.

Posted by Sore on 8/5/2008 11:27:00 AM (Report abuse)

Try doing it in public somewhere

Posted by GoodGurl on 8/4/2008 7:03:00 PM (Report abuse)

Do you guys talk about it? you should try talking to him about it.... suggest things you like no matter how risky or "dirty" they are. I was in the same situation so i just asked him what we could do to spice things up a bit. and we both starting throwing out ideas that neither one of us ever thought we'd hear from each other. and our sex is life is fun and spontaneous, even after 4 years! try doing it at all different times of day, different places, at home or maybe not at home even lol.... to make it more risky and fun