Should I marry my baby's daddy?
Posted by Riley on 7/29/2008 12:05:00 PM
OK so I had a baby 4 months ago and he is so wonderful.. I love being a mom, and even though he was a suprise I can't imagine life without him now. : ) As for his daddy I just dont know what to do. I need some serious advice. When I found out I was pregnant we had been broken up for a month. I made him move out so I could move on. I just didnt feel like he was the one for me. We get along just fine and do care and love each other but I have this constant feeling like I am settling and deserve so much better. He wants to get married and I am just so confused on if I want to or not. We have been together two years other than the brief break up and its was rocky for a little bit but since has gotten better. I always tell him how I feel and that I have doubts and he just tells me that no relationship is perfect and that we are fine. I hate that I get jelous and insecure about other girls too. He did once cheat on me before I found out I was pregnant. ( one big reason I dumped him) I just shouldnt have those feelings toward the man I am going to spend the rest of my life with and I dont know how to get over them or if I should just move on. I know it will be hard at first but is it the best thing? How do you "know" when its the " one"?
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Honestly its not upto others to make the choice its upto you. Ive been in a similar situation BUT I knew he was the one. Yeah sometimes people make mistakes but that rocky road we traveled only made us stronger, closer in the end. Not all guys will continue to cheat. Mistakes happen life is hard and not everything is simple. My bf changed not for me, not for the baby but bc deep inside he knew something had to change. Today he is the man of my dreams, the best father I could ask for and my best friend. Think about your situation and weigh out your options. From one mommy to another.
Posted by Just Jay on 7/30/2008 5:33:00 PM (Report abuse)
definitely try and work things out with him as far as a relationship. but marriage? no...not until you are completely sure of wanting to be with him forever. you can always marry someone else or date someone else and still get support from your baby's daddy
Posted by Kk7 on 7/30/2008 11:13:00 AM (Report abuse)
I agree with Skratch all the way. If you feel he isn't the one for you, you really should move on.
Posted by Bliss on 7/29/2008 11:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
Honestly Honey, If he cheated on you once, whats to say he won't do it again? Marriage is alot harder to end. And when it's the "one" You'll just know. He's someone who makes your knees weak. and your heart race, And the "One" Wouldn't cheat on you. I would suggest maybe trying as just boyfriend/Girlfriend for a while more. If that doesn't work then move on.
Posted by Skratch on 7/29/2008 10:32:00 PM (Report abuse)