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Should i try to get her back

Posted by confusedkid15 on 8/25/2008 9:52:00 PM
Ok me and my girlfriend broke up last school year but we decided to stay friends. Just recently she has been talking to me and texting me alot more. She also has been inviting me over to her house to hangout alot. When I'm at her house its like nothing has changed since we broke up, she still cuddles with me and hugs me when I leave.We havent started kissing again, but I have a feeling it will happen soon. I was really confused by all this so I asked her if she still likes and if she wants to get back together. She told me that she wasnt sure what she wants, she said she is confused about whether or not she wants me, or this other guy she likes. I still have feelings for her and I would like to give me and her another try but idk if I should. I feel like she is using me as a back up incase things between her and this other guy dont work out. I need advice, what should I do????

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Do not wait for her.
The truth is regardless if you, I, or the man down the street wants to realize it...

You should not have to convince someone to be with you.
Posted by Emily on 8/26/2008 10:20:00 PM (Report abuse)
don't make any dicisions... i have been there and it is not a good idea to make any dicisions til she makes the dicision and make sure she don't have anything to do with that other guy first. i have been there take a step too far might make u fumble.. so just watch ur step.
Posted by ripperjoey on 8/25/2008 11:59:00 PM (Report abuse)
Find someone who is less confused
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/25/2008 11:09:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hey, if she's confused, then don't do it. You'll just end up either being hurt, or you'll hurt her. Have her sort things out, and for the time being, try not to get so physically and emotionally involved with her. You can talk, but cuddling and all of that emotional-touchy stuff should stop until she can make her decision. People like her are people who end up having two relationships in one time because they just can't pick.
Be patient and tell her to sort out her own feelings before even trying to attempt to going into a relationship.

It'll work out for the better. (:
Posted by Penguin on 8/25/2008 11:00:00 PM (Report abuse)
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