Should We Wait?!
Posted by an anonymous user on 5/5/2008 12:07:00 AM
My boyfriend & I have been together for about a year & a half now. He's 18, planning to go into the Marines after graduation (no, he's not crazy) lol. And I'm 17, a Junior in high school.
We love each other soooo much!
Yes, LOVE... And no, we don't THINK, we KNOW it!
My man is my everything & I'm his!
...But anyway...Since he's going into the military, we talk alot about plans of MARRIAGE, MOVING AROUND, & KIDS. My parents, of course, don't want to hear it because we're so young...Well, because I am!
I know I still have time to GROW UP & FIND WHO I REALLY AM, HAVE "ME" TIME, & DATE OTHER PEOPLE...But I feel like this is the right thing for me!
I bring up the idea of me getting married at 18 or 19 to my parents every once in a while, just to show them that we're very serious about this. I think as time progesses their minds will change...Slowly, but surely! lol
It's not like we're trying to RUSH & have SEX or anything either, because that's already happened! I know in my HEART, MIND, SPIRIT, & SOUL that we're doing this thing.....
...It's just the AGE & TIMING part that has me ABSOLUTELY CLUELESS???
**what do you think about my little situation?**
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We love each other soooo much!
Yes, LOVE... And no, we don't THINK, we KNOW it!
My man is my everything & I'm his!
...But anyway...Since he's going into the military, we talk alot about plans of MARRIAGE, MOVING AROUND, & KIDS. My parents, of course, don't want to hear it because we're so young...Well, because I am!
I know I still have time to GROW UP & FIND WHO I REALLY AM, HAVE "ME" TIME, & DATE OTHER PEOPLE...But I feel like this is the right thing for me!
I bring up the idea of me getting married at 18 or 19 to my parents every once in a while, just to show them that we're very serious about this. I think as time progesses their minds will change...Slowly, but surely! lol
It's not like we're trying to RUSH & have SEX or anything either, because that's already happened! I know in my HEART, MIND, SPIRIT, & SOUL that we're doing this thing.....
...It's just the AGE & TIMING part that has me ABSOLUTELY CLUELESS???
**what do you think about my little situation?**
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get engaged, and see where it goes from there
Posted by Kk on 6/12/2008 1:24:00 PM (Report abuse)
oh lordy. go to fucking college first, party, get drunk, have one night stands, LIVE. Don't get married....you will regret it later and don't have kids till later....fuckin psycho
Posted by Oh lordy on 6/2/2008 8:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
Your young, and in love.
So am I.
But I would wait on the marriage until he finishes his marines duty to see how things are.
So am I.
But I would wait on the marriage until he finishes his marines duty to see how things are.
Posted by Ame on 5/6/2008 10:58:00 PM (Report abuse)
im 17.
i have a boyfriend.
we are very young to be making these desicions.
i have a boyfriend.
we are very young to be making these desicions.
Posted by Melissa on 5/5/2008 6:48:00 PM (Report abuse)
it sounds like you genuinely love each other..and if you are serious then i dont see why you houldnt go ahead and seal the deal, so to speak.
and your not that young..you could be twelve and with some old wierdo lol
it sounds like your being responsible and actually putting some thought into this...so just listen to your heart ( i know, cheesey) and dont let other people influence that...besides your practically and adult.
and your not that young..you could be twelve and with some old wierdo lol
it sounds like your being responsible and actually putting some thought into this...so just listen to your heart ( i know, cheesey) and dont let other people influence that...besides your practically and adult.
Posted by Jay on 5/5/2008 5:13:00 PM (Report abuse)