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Sometimes I think my friends dont care

Posted by an anonymous user on 8/3/2008 6:37:00 AM
There are times when I think my friends really couldn't care less if I were there, they all smoke and its annoying as I dont, im not gonna start anytime soon but it seems they have there own little club or something. The other night we playing truth or dare and someone asked my friend who she liked best outa me and my best friend, she answered my best friend cos she has fags. I mean seriously? They know it's bad for them yet they still do it.

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and if you are trying to act like their mom, they'll probably get mad at you and try to ignore you
Posted by Kk7 on 8/4/2008 2:53:00 PM (Report abuse)
if they are your true friends, then look past your differences, they smoke and you dont.

if they are not true friends, then move on, as hard as it may be. their fad may wear out, and maybe some will quit and you may become friends again
Posted by Kk7 on 8/4/2008 10:44:00 AM (Report abuse)
I know exactly how you're feeling because I was in your situation at the beginning of my freshman year in high school. My best friend and the people I had made friends with all did drugs, smoked, drank, and it got to the point where they would never invite me to hang out with them because of the fact that I didn't do drugs. This is going to seem awful to you I'm sure, but find new friends, that's what I did, friends who care for me as I am and don't need me to smoke to be able to hang out with them. It seems like it might be hard but it's really the best thing you're ever going to do for yourself. If you friend liked someone else better then you just because they had cigarettes, they're not a very good friend at all. Believe me, you'll be a completely new person, for the better :)
Posted by Ghost on 8/3/2008 9:06:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hey, if you feel your friends are pressuring you to smoke, or even do something you don't want to do, they're not really your friends. They don't consider your feelings. If they are your friends, then it's fine for you to just talk about what you're feeling. Keeping secrets in any kind of a relationship just destroys it from the inside out.
Posted by Penguin on 8/3/2008 4:04:00 PM (Report abuse)
Get new friends. Seriously get new friends and never look back. You will be healthier and happier than they will ever be.
Posted by Gary on 8/3/2008 7:49:00 AM (Report abuse)
dont feel pressurized by these girls. you dont have to smoke to be cool? if there is one girl in the group you trust more than others, talk to her about how you are feeling. or find some new friends, surely a personality is better than having cigarettes.
Posted by Han on 8/3/2008 7:21:00 AM (Report abuse)
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