Mine wasn't, mine was great. My father I never knew as they got divorced when I was 3, my step dad passed end of last year. He was ok in most ways I guess, but we never had any bond, so no awkward picking out a card with a "neutral" feel to it, and no usual box of chocolate and mundane, just-do-it-for-the-sake-of-doing-it handshake. Visited the grave with my mom and paid my respects again, which was just fine by me.
At home I got spoiled and plenty of love from my 6-year old :)
I know I won't get much response here, as it's actually something up-beat for a change, guess I just felt like spreading the love a bit lol!