http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/spousal-abuse-and-falling-in-love-online/14301586/The right place to post your secrets. I say, once and abuser always an abuser. He might be trying to change, but if you don't love him, then there's no point in being with him. He should change for himself, you shouldn't have to stay... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/spousal-abuse-and-falling-in-love-online/14301586/#c14306975 17 Sep 2008 09:54:00 +0000 OVER YOU My ex is an abuser and still is. You're lucky your husband loves you enough to try and change because divorce is horrible for the kids, they never get over it. You can't change your husband~remember... http://www.secrettalk.com/secrets/spousal-abuse-and-falling-in-love-online/14301586/#c14304203 08 Jul 2008 11:24:00 +0000