The man who cheats on the wife and the mistress
Posted by an anonymous user on 6/20/2008 12:32:00 PM
This is the shocking story of my friend, the unlucky mistress. It started off with a one night stand. The way she described it, sex was really hot with this man. Then feelings developed. The man says his marriage (though he has baby born in 2000 then) wasn't going well with constant fights plus he mentioned the wife wasn't highly educated and used to be hung up on another different guy before she marries this man. But according to my friend, her age was catching up on her, so she asked this man to marry her who seemed more rich.
The mistress who then had a steady boyfriend of 8 years, dumped her boyfriend for him because she can't be with 2 men. Soon after the one night stand and more sexual intercourse, the man's wife was actually pregnant which he claimed he didn't realize it and gave birth in 2002. By then he said he can't leave the wife and the 2 kids.
He's a foreigner named GR, married businessman married with 2 kids, one boy one girl. Wife (named SA) is not working so fully rely on him. He cheated on his wife to have an extra marital affair since 2001 and he has been sleeping with both women for a long time. Now he's trying to get rid of the mistress because the mistress had enough of his cheating ways and threaten to tell his wife about their affair since 2001 and that this man R, cheated on both of them. She's no longer afraid to let the wife know about their affair and even more willing to tell the wife that the husband is not a good man, husband and father.
But he keeps hurting the mistress instead with more lies & kept his distance from her lately like they never exist. Luckily there are some evidence & witnesses. Years went by, the man gave empty promises then more the mistress pressure, the more resentful he got. He doesn't want to face reality. Plus he's surrounded with those influential wealthy people. Now people see him as a very good man with a happy family.
Meanwhile, my friend, has suffered and no longer the same bubbly positive person she was. Her life now consists of couple of suicide attempts, self-mutilations and lots of unnecessary drugs - I'm positive her kidney and lung won't be able to last long. Some days I do see scars and bruises on her. As a friend, I don't to see her suffer anymore. She may be wrong to be in such relationship, but its not right for her to sacrifice her life for this man. She's moody at times but sometimes stared into space like someone possessed. I don't want to lose my friend. Furthermore, she even suspect the man is seeing another woman lately, cheating on both her and his wife.
The wife is also too stupid to not suspect anything. But my guess is she will stay put instead of getting divorce with alimony money as they live in huge bungalow. The wife rather close one eyes i think than to lose all the materialisms. Sad, some women especially wives rather lose their dignity for such men. If I'm her, I bring the 2 kids away and charge the stupid man with divorce & demand high alimony. If I'm my friend, I expose the man to whole world that he's not clean with evidence then move on with life. If I'm the new woman, I would stay away from a man who can say I Love You with a straight face and to the mistress and to the wife.
I hope this man is destroyed. I don't want my friend to give up her life. I don't want other women to suffer because of this man. He will continue to hurt others the way he did to my friend. I hope one day women who are hurt by him will stand forward to tell the world he is a scumbag. Hope the wife will also feel ashamed to be married to such bad man.
I suspect my friend is seeing someone married. First few years, she was actually happy. But lately, she's been weird. Carrying a written will everywhere. If anything happen to her, I will help her family by stepping in as her witness to charge this man in court and will make sure this news to publish in newspaper. Then we will see how this man and his family face the their own families and their social circle of friends. We don't need such man to be in this world. I also hope he lose his children as well because they don't deserve such kind of father!
It took my friend 1.5 botttles of wine with tequilla shots to get her drunk to tell what's bothering her. She ended up crying uncontrollably and made me promise not to tell her family or friends about this man.
If I see this man and his family in town, I'll be sure to give a piece of my mind in public in front of his wife and children. I want this man to be put to stop.
Tags: extra, marital, affair
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The mistress who then had a steady boyfriend of 8 years, dumped her boyfriend for him because she can't be with 2 men. Soon after the one night stand and more sexual intercourse, the man's wife was actually pregnant which he claimed he didn't realize it and gave birth in 2002. By then he said he can't leave the wife and the 2 kids.
He's a foreigner named GR, married businessman married with 2 kids, one boy one girl. Wife (named SA) is not working so fully rely on him. He cheated on his wife to have an extra marital affair since 2001 and he has been sleeping with both women for a long time. Now he's trying to get rid of the mistress because the mistress had enough of his cheating ways and threaten to tell his wife about their affair since 2001 and that this man R, cheated on both of them. She's no longer afraid to let the wife know about their affair and even more willing to tell the wife that the husband is not a good man, husband and father.
But he keeps hurting the mistress instead with more lies & kept his distance from her lately like they never exist. Luckily there are some evidence & witnesses. Years went by, the man gave empty promises then more the mistress pressure, the more resentful he got. He doesn't want to face reality. Plus he's surrounded with those influential wealthy people. Now people see him as a very good man with a happy family.
Meanwhile, my friend, has suffered and no longer the same bubbly positive person she was. Her life now consists of couple of suicide attempts, self-mutilations and lots of unnecessary drugs - I'm positive her kidney and lung won't be able to last long. Some days I do see scars and bruises on her. As a friend, I don't to see her suffer anymore. She may be wrong to be in such relationship, but its not right for her to sacrifice her life for this man. She's moody at times but sometimes stared into space like someone possessed. I don't want to lose my friend. Furthermore, she even suspect the man is seeing another woman lately, cheating on both her and his wife.
The wife is also too stupid to not suspect anything. But my guess is she will stay put instead of getting divorce with alimony money as they live in huge bungalow. The wife rather close one eyes i think than to lose all the materialisms. Sad, some women especially wives rather lose their dignity for such men. If I'm her, I bring the 2 kids away and charge the stupid man with divorce & demand high alimony. If I'm my friend, I expose the man to whole world that he's not clean with evidence then move on with life. If I'm the new woman, I would stay away from a man who can say I Love You with a straight face and to the mistress and to the wife.
I hope this man is destroyed. I don't want my friend to give up her life. I don't want other women to suffer because of this man. He will continue to hurt others the way he did to my friend. I hope one day women who are hurt by him will stand forward to tell the world he is a scumbag. Hope the wife will also feel ashamed to be married to such bad man.
I suspect my friend is seeing someone married. First few years, she was actually happy. But lately, she's been weird. Carrying a written will everywhere. If anything happen to her, I will help her family by stepping in as her witness to charge this man in court and will make sure this news to publish in newspaper. Then we will see how this man and his family face the their own families and their social circle of friends. We don't need such man to be in this world. I also hope he lose his children as well because they don't deserve such kind of father!
It took my friend 1.5 botttles of wine with tequilla shots to get her drunk to tell what's bothering her. She ended up crying uncontrollably and made me promise not to tell her family or friends about this man.
If I see this man and his family in town, I'll be sure to give a piece of my mind in public in front of his wife and children. I want this man to be put to stop.
Tags: extra, marital, affair
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