This is THE VERY END i hate my life!!!
Posted by anushkascrewed on 11/1/2007 2:00:00 AM
I'm so destroyed in here...i just hate my life n especially my family...my friends just want me for money n my parents they dont even care they just care for my brother n i am growing fat day by day none of the clothes which i previously wore fit me...i m just 15 and life seems hell....will anyone tell me whom i m living for!!! kill me!!!
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dont kill urself no matter wat!
it wont be worth it
it wont be worth it
Posted by Dont do it! on 5/16/2008 12:27:00 PM
We all go through physical changes, even within one month our weight fluctuates due to hormones and water retention. Don't worry. Even the way you feel about how your parents treat you versus your brother can be explained physiologically. You're a young person who is dealing with all the pinnacle changes of puberty. That can really mess up our feelings and perceptions.
Your parents love you. Sometimes as parents we can't be exactly fair in the way we deal with different kids, because for example of ages. Younger children and older children have different kinds of responsibilities and physical needs and can't always be treated the same. It's not equal, but it's right. In this it IS fair.
It sounds like you need to get out and run off some steam. Go for a bike ride or jog the track at school. Your brain will work better and you will be able to deal with these crazy feelings and frustrations better. Besides, exercise stimulates a well-being hormone in our brain that makes us feel that everything will be okay now.
You asked WHOM you are living for. God has created you to have an intimate and personal relationship with Him. He created you because of His love for you.
I assure you that if you read the Bible (you can search online for it), particularly the book of John you will find peace and answers you are looking for.
I don't think you need to 'find a boyfriend,' that's not a solution. You need to find the answer to your question. The love of friends and family is only a shadow (or a demo version) of the TRUE love of God. Find your rest in Him.
Your parents love you. Sometimes as parents we can't be exactly fair in the way we deal with different kids, because for example of ages. Younger children and older children have different kinds of responsibilities and physical needs and can't always be treated the same. It's not equal, but it's right. In this it IS fair.
It sounds like you need to get out and run off some steam. Go for a bike ride or jog the track at school. Your brain will work better and you will be able to deal with these crazy feelings and frustrations better. Besides, exercise stimulates a well-being hormone in our brain that makes us feel that everything will be okay now.
You asked WHOM you are living for. God has created you to have an intimate and personal relationship with Him. He created you because of His love for you.
I assure you that if you read the Bible (you can search online for it), particularly the book of John you will find peace and answers you are looking for.
I don't think you need to 'find a boyfriend,' that's not a solution. You need to find the answer to your question. The love of friends and family is only a shadow (or a demo version) of the TRUE love of God. Find your rest in Him.
Posted by DM on 11/20/2007 3:58:00 PM
if your friend could not help you, at least a real friend should listen to your story and try to cheer you up. if your current friends only use you, then leave them!
plan for your future. you are so young and you never know when and where in the near future you will meet the one whom you feel like living for. besides, isn't it a great joy and success to live a happy life as a great revenge to the family members who do not care about you at all,even though they are supposed to?
it is not as difficult to live in such a family for some years as to lose some weight or to change your eating habit, you can make it!
plan for your future. you are so young and you never know when and where in the near future you will meet the one whom you feel like living for. besides, isn't it a great joy and success to live a happy life as a great revenge to the family members who do not care about you at all,even though they are supposed to?
it is not as difficult to live in such a family for some years as to lose some weight or to change your eating habit, you can make it!
Posted by Susanna on 11/7/2007 9:03:00 PM
You are probably not even fat, but if you feel unhealthy then start to work out and eat good foods. dont say that you hate your life because it is probably only a phase. just find good friends, and good activities to get your mond off your sucky life, and also you are only 15 life can get a lot worse
Posted by Dessoan on 11/2/2007 11:09:00 PM
you should bileve jesus first. and take good diciton with your wife.
Posted by Job on 11/2/2007 4:03:00 PM
hey wait a minute....if you aregaining then do some sort of workout..start quick before the lbs get stubbon. Stop spending on your friends..if they are with u for that reason then you are better off alone.
Posted by Gul on 11/1/2007 9:14:00 AM
Don't lose heart. At your age, at times all seems hopeless but this is a mirage only... not true.
First of all you have to live for yourself. PERIOD. Just try to focus on what is important...
1. studies at school
2. Fun activity... that you like
3. Your future life
If you feel you are bloating, then start gyming.
I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS STATE OF HOPELESSNESS & THAT TOO WHEN I WAS MORE MATURE & I PULLED THROUGH... HOW? MIRACLE.
So don't give in. You are young & whole life is infront of you.
IF YOU HAVE LOW ESTEEM BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE GETTING BLOATED... PRIM UP... SPICE UP & LOOK FOR A NICE BOY FRIEND.
TRY ALL THIS FOR 2 MONTHS ATLEAST & THEN GET BACK TO ME.
ALL THE BEST!
NOAH
First of all you have to live for yourself. PERIOD. Just try to focus on what is important...
1. studies at school
2. Fun activity... that you like
3. Your future life
If you feel you are bloating, then start gyming.
I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS STATE OF HOPELESSNESS & THAT TOO WHEN I WAS MORE MATURE & I PULLED THROUGH... HOW? MIRACLE.
So don't give in. You are young & whole life is infront of you.
IF YOU HAVE LOW ESTEEM BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE GETTING BLOATED... PRIM UP... SPICE UP & LOOK FOR A NICE BOY FRIEND.
TRY ALL THIS FOR 2 MONTHS ATLEAST & THEN GET BACK TO ME.
ALL THE BEST!
NOAH
Posted by Noah on 11/1/2007 9:04:00 AM