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To Love, Or Not To Love, That Is The Question

Posted by Confused11 on 7/23/2008 11:49:00 PM
I am engaged to the most amazing man on the face of the earth. I love him more than anything, but the problem is that when he is gone for a little while (like a couple weeks or something) i start looking at other guys and unconsciously flirt, and think to myself like "oh, hes cute and likes the same music, i wonder if he wants to chill sometime." I dont mean this AT ALL! I LOOOOVVVEEEE my fiance, but sometimes i get scared that maybe im just telling myself that i love him. What do u think?

Tags: love, fiance, engaged, fake, flirt, unconscience

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I can so totally relate...and I'm confused too!
Posted by L on 7/24/2008 10:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
follow your heart, not your brain. you cant simply "convince" yourself that your in love with someone.

if you arent sure about your fiance, take a trial break, and see if you still want to be with him, or other men
Posted by Kk7 on 7/24/2008 10:35:00 AM (Report abuse)
Well, when you're thinking "i wonder if he wants to chill sometime", do you mean as friends or as something more? It's sometimes difficult to fully know if you love somebody or not. Listen to your heart closely and then you'll know. Only YOU will know how you feel about another person. Hope I helped.
Posted by Bliss on 7/24/2008 10:08:00 AM (Report abuse)
think it over.. and over.. and over.
till you make the right decision, whether you love him or not.
be careful and choose wisely.
Good luck.
Posted by Nightwish99 on 7/24/2008 9:50:00 AM (Report abuse)
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